So I had a friend who I just hung out with at school.And last weekend I went out and called her up for help because it was around 10p.m and I was completely alone in the streets so I called her so she would stay on the phone with me until I got home. Well turns out her mom found out but it wasnt a big deal because i didnt do anything wrong. But on Monday when I went to school I started talking to her and she said "My mom said I cant talk to you anymore or hang out with you" So I walked away and said bye. Though I dont understand because if she thinks im a bad influence then she shouldnt allow her to watch tv, or go out because she'll get influenced to go bad things and I dont force her to do anything she does what she wants and I dont control her actions. So her surroundings and friends dont affect what she does or who she is.Well now she says that its all my fault and I dont understand because I didnt do anything and her mom shouldnt judge me if she doesnt know me.So what should I do?
2007-03-13 15:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first, peoples surroundings do affect who they are in some ways. not so much as who they are but can influence their actions.
I'm a parent. and if my daughter (when she grows up) got a call late after hours from a friend that put herself into a bad situation i would think again about her having a friend like that. basically... if you put yourself in a bad situation you can put her daughter into a bad situation. you have to not look at yourself but look at the moms feelings. your a kid and some day u will understand that us parent's took a whole lot of our lives blood sweat and tears to raise our children and want the best for them and don't want to see them on the cover of the news paper raped and murdered.
2007-03-13 15:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the moment, just leave them alone because the more you explain to them, the more they will resent you. I guess I was in your friend's shoes once, and you can't blame anybody for it as it is an unforseen circumstances. You must understand the as school-going children, the parents expect the child tosleep early, among other things. Each family has their different views so respect that. I suggest you take things one step at a time. You can't force a relationship or friendship for that matter. Stay cool.
2007-03-13 22:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about what her mom said and what she said. Just be completely honest with your friend and your feeling and about the feeling turds your friendship
2007-03-14 04:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about what her mom said and what she said. Just be completely honest with your friend and your feeling and about the feeling turds your friendship.
2007-03-13 22:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thing you sure try to talk to her or to her mom, but if you sure you didn't do anything wrong. if none of them are interesting to talk to you jest get a new best friend, but before you get one new best friend make sure that she belive in you. i know how you feel.
2007-03-13 22:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by pinkkitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks that way,then she is not a friend worth having.
2007-03-13 22:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by QP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just let it go..mom's are weird and if she can't be your friend let her go..
if you have no friends then you got a problem..
lol
but w/e
2007-03-13 22:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Andie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋