is lucky to have me as his wife, and that he could not ask for more, but one time i see him with a offline with girl he chat before he met me, but he already delete that girl id, because we argue about it, but after that its seems like that i dont trust him anymore, he promise and swear to me that its just that girl keep sending her a ofline but hes not replying, he said he just reply it one time whe girl asking him to find bf for her, its hard to trust him about that, since we just met in internet, we just chat for 2 months then he flew in our country and ask me to marry him,while that girl is her chat mate for more than a year, sometimes i think that maybe my husband realize that he love that girl not me, and that he just cant leave me because im a virgin when he marry me and he feel pity to me but i dont want him to stay with me if he dont love me, should i believ my husband that he love me, and trust him that his not talking with that girl?
2007-03-13 15:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have a username of Sexy G, but you're questioning your husband???
2007-03-13 15:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your are a married couple. He is yours, legally, and morally. I believed your relationship should not be unduly clouded by doubt and emotional insecurity of a young bride like you. Being always doubtful won't help you nor your relationship.
Trust and love is the strongest foundation of a happy marriage.. Forget that chat mate of him. Give your man a breathing space, while doing well your wifely duties. By the way, prayer will make your strong. Your are lucky, shed off your insecurities and trust the Lord. Coungratulations to both of You!
2007-03-13 15:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by september 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he married you and shouldnt be chatting w/ any girl. All though he might not be having intimate relations w/ her well I hope not its still in my eyes a form of cheating. I can understand why you would be suspicious just try to trust him usually when you feel distant from him like he doesnt act interested in you could care less about how you feel etc that could be a sign. You need to talk to him.
2007-03-13 15:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man loves his wife he doesn't chat to other girls on the internet, sure you're good to him in bed--what has that got to do with this? i believe he is still and will continue to chat with that girl, is the fact that you are a young girl from another country the reason he treats you like you're less important than he is?
do something to his computer so he has to go far out of his way to chat to her, i wouldn't believe a word he tells you.
2007-03-13 15:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just belive him?
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2007-03-13 15:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you ask someone that they are happy, they have to question themselves.
they tell you how it is.
if they aren't completely happy, they will you what they are happy with.
the things he is unhappy with his probably work and society.
he loves you. trust him. if you suspect someone, find proof and shut him down.
2007-03-13 15:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw a couple of guys now !
Get some extra now he cheated on you!
Get revenge!
2007-03-13 15:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by disturb m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa...that alot of reading for you have not to said anything....
2007-03-13 15:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋