i was with my ex girlfriend deanna for 3+ years. i always told myself i wasnt happy with her. i hated being around her. but she was safe. she would neve cheat on me and she would marry me in a second if i asked her. i met nicole about 8 months ago and found that instant spark when i met her. i wanted to be with he so bad it hurt. well unbenounced to me deanna was pregnant. we had our first child together on oct31. it was more than i could handle. things started to heat up between nicole and i and i finally made the choice to leave deanna and be with nicole. things are amazing with her. we laugh and share the same stories and couldnt be happier. but i still have this nagging pain for deanna. all i can think about is hard my life is going to be now that i have autumn and im no longer with deanna. plus i miss her, real bad. i dont know what to do. in some way i know i wont be happy with deanna but i still want to be with her. do i take the easy road or follow my heart?
2007-03-13 14:58:14 · 11 answers · asked by cheekoisdaman1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I looks like you are just one selfish guy. Never mind that you knocked up your girl. You are all about avoiding responsibility so you can get your freak on.
Good luck.
2007-03-13 15:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
right now things are great with the Nicole, but just wait awhile and Nicole will turn into the same person Deanna is now. just give it time, but you can't see it right now, because your relationship with Nicole is still in the honeymoon stage where neither of u can or will see the others faults. u made your choice, u can blame all this on not being happy with Deanna, but the real unhappiness probably started when met Nicole. just give it a year or so, and u will see there really isn't much of a difference in them.
2007-03-13 15:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass might look greener but make sure you take a closer look. Make sure you throughly check the lawn for crabgrass and weeds and bugs. From a far the grass might look greener but walk across the street and take a closer look.
You might be surprised at what you see!
2007-03-13 15:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by ANJANETTE C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve Deanna - grow up & realize that you are acting like a butt!! Stop thinking about yourself, how selfish can you be????????????
Do you really think a child deserves a here & there man in their mother's life ?
2007-03-13 15:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything worth having is worth working for......if it's easy, it's probably not worth your time; with that said, you now have to decide which is the easy road and which is the road worth working towards.....
2007-03-13 15:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the loser in this situation - you have no idea what you are missing out on by not staying with the mother of your child, do you? Man I pity you
2007-03-13 15:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why people come on here and ask questions that make them appear to be immature fools?
2007-03-13 15:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. easy road doesn't mean the right road.
2007-03-13 15:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This grass is never greener.
2007-03-13 15:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is greener where you take care of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 15:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋