2007-03-13 14:48:02 · 5 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi!!!
I'm sorry sweetie, but you should respect and love your friends, as they are. You don't find someone to be friend with and then try to change your firend!!!
Oh Yeah!! Even though you may try to change that person, they will NOT !!! A person changes when a person feels good and ready to do so.
Would you like to be friends with someone to find out they want to change you or your ways, to their liking???
Well that is what you are doing!!! And it is NOT right!!!
One thing is that you care for her and are worried about her and the kind of guys she might be with, or the dangerous situations she might be encountering; and the other is to change that person, because you are NOT like her!!!
Sit down with her and explain how you feel. Let her know how much you care and worried, about something negative happening to her.
Tell her that in order for you NOT to feel like that, is to keep the distance between you two, so you don't know everything of what is going on her life and it will NOT affect you as much.
If I'm advising you to talk like that to your friend is because your friend is NOT with the problem.
The problem is your's, your the one that don't like her being into boys, you are the one that wants her to change, and you are the one that don't know what to do!!!
Obviously your frined has NO problems as far as what she is doing and with whom!!!
If that bothers you so much, then distance between her, without the chance of knowing her where abouts, is what YOU need, to end YOUR, problem!!!!
Respect over all, your friendship, she doesn't have to behave YOUR WAY, advise her and reasure her your concern, but I believe she will appreaciate much better if you would be a true friend and DO NOT CRITIZES, instead understand her.
Who knows if you quit telling her what NOT to do probably, she will come around and straighten herself up!!!
LOVE HER, ADVISE HER POSITIVELY, PRAY & LET HER BE!!!
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 15:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell her that you wish to talk about something else for a change and that if she gets to involved into boys, to be careful when she's older... if ya know what I mean. ;)
Rather be safe then sorry!
2007-03-13 21:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight-up. Your'e a guy, and you don't like to talk about other guys all the time. Tell her that she needs to get more girlfreinds. And tell her to stop being annoying with it. If she's your freinds, I'm sure she'll understand.
good luck
2007-03-13 21:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Angelbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your just not the right person to talk to about boys and that you don't really like it.
2007-03-13 21:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to talk about boys with you. If you don't you will blow up and scream at her. Talk with a calm voice.
2007-03-13 21:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋