2007-03-13 14:16:23 · 29 answers · asked by iloveyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as long as adultery is not commited
2007-03-13 15:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible, however if you act on it with the woman that is not your wife it makes you a liar and a cheat to your wife and more than likely a liar to your affair partner. You will be needlessly self stripping your own integrity.
Your "love" (lust) for the other woman is merely *"stolen luv" with your idea of this woman. Dump your wife for the affair partner and you will soon discover she has all kinds of irritating habits and does things that are far more irritating than the woman you left. This *"stolen luv" soon implodes when you begin living with this person you do not know and you start dealing with nearly the same day to day issues you left behind to be with this love goddess. This relationship has a 5% chance of succeeding.
The first thing you should do is make every attempt to fix what is broken in your marriage without the added complication of an affair partner. If you find your marriage is unable to be saved you are then able to divorce with your integrity in tact and you can then explore your new love.
Remember if it is possible for a man it is also possible for a woman...be careful what you wish for!
2007-03-13 22:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can love someone and be in love with someone. It's possible but it's wrong. You shouldn't involve yourself with another female if you are married. That's why I prefer not to have any male friends. If you have a friend of the opposite sex and you tell them your problems, it's like you are confiding in them and that causes you to have feelings for them. And being in a relationship (married) that's not good at all.
2007-03-13 21:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who says yes. I have another who says no. I tend to think it depends on how much any one individual can love.
Love is one of those things that is very individual. and no loving two women is not adultery it is sleeping with another person outside of your marriage.
The problems come with the attitudes and honest feelings of all those involved are not compatible.
2007-03-13 21:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by geekgirl33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might claim to, but a married man who lets himself get into a position to fall for a second woman really only loves himself.
2007-03-13 21:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Cracea 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. If he loved his wife then he wouldnt be seeing another woman. If he wanted you he would leave his wife but guys that cant make a decision are usually users or chickens. Get out while you can
2007-03-13 21:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice, not an emotion, so of course it's possible. It's probably lust since he hasn't committed to either one of them. What a jerk.
2007-03-13 21:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had true love for your wife you wouldn't even think about it because you wouldn't want to hurt her. Your little guy might think he loves 2 women though.
2007-03-13 21:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might think its possible and that you love both, but true love is only directed at one person. you may just be passionate about both but not really love either if you cant tell
2007-03-13 21:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible, yes. BUT what is not good is having a relationship with other woman besides his wife. know what i mean?
2007-03-13 21:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by caige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it can be possible, I believe you can be attracted or have a "crush" on someone else. I believe love is exclusive, or it should be.
2007-03-13 21:20:15 · answer #11 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋