My husband has been staying a few times at his Moms fixing up the place and her home health aide has asked him to watch her bowl, she is single and flirting with him alot according to his Mom, well he admitted to going and watch her bowl and drink, 2 times should I be worried.
2007-03-13 14:11:00 · 19 answers · asked by colbydog43 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm, yes I would be. Did you know that he went to watch her, or did you confront him and he admitted to it? If he went and never told you, I would be concerned. Why would he stop there? Sorry to be so forward with this. But I would be very upset and lay it all out on the table.
2007-03-13 14:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by bratzmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a man is married, there is no going out with other women - unless you're coming along with him. Even still, he's in the wrong - he should not be following this woman around like a puppy. You should definitely be worried but one thing you can do is report her to the agency where she works and let them know what's going on. She will be most likely be replaced and that might solve the problem entirely.
2007-03-13 14:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all... They could lose their job over this one as it is unprofessional behavior and has nothing to do with the job they are asked to do. Yes you should be worried if you ask me as she should not be hitting on your husband at all and is he flirting back with her? Have you asked your husband about this yet? Your husband should not be going with her to so called watch her bowling. He may be cheating on you already and if i were you i would report her to her bosses and superiors at her work.
2007-03-13 14:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a extensive distinction between flirting and hitting on somebody. Flirting would properly be the certainly harmless banter that occurs with waitresses in eating places. Flirting with every person, at the same time as completely be attentive to-how no longer something will come of that's relaxing. extra effective than that, flirting is rather flattering. particularly than being disillusioned that it occurs, possibly you ought to make investments a number of your potential in flattering your spouse to boot. in the adventure that your worry turns into that your important different is going to purchase into some starnger flirting you ought to get into some medical care straight away.
2016-11-25 01:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried and you should report her. I'd just scream to high heaven and cause an awful stink. He'll be so flattered as he has the male ego and she'll be scared she'll never work again. That should cool things off a bit. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-13 14:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely think so. I saw a response to report the woman, while that might be a good it sounds like your husband is as wrapped up in the flirtation as she is. No she is not professionalism sounds like he's not discouraging her actions. I would definitely evaluate what is going on in your relationship & look to yourself to see if you feel there has been a violation of trust.
2007-03-13 14:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a CNA and you can always ask for a new aide if there is any problem. Your the employer, and your satisfaction counts and this isn't something you or your Mother need to worry about.
2007-03-13 14:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think even for you to ask this question, you should be worried. A married man shouldn't be seen in public with another (single) female, especially if there is alcohol involved.
2007-03-13 14:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! why the heck would your husband watch some other women BOWL? there is something going on with that.
2007-03-13 14:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by loulou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a right to be worried, becuse she shouldn't be flirting with a married man. She shouldn't be flirting with anyone especially while she's working.
2007-03-13 14:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋