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Okay. Here we go..... Sergio and I were together for two and a half years. We started to have sex and things went down from there because it was just too much pressure. We were each others first loves. We made many plans for after school about getting married and moving away.
We Broke Up
He is ruining his life. I am still deeply in love with and a part of me will always love him. He is my bestfriend.
It has been one month since we broke up and he has since been arrested for reckless driving withought his license, been grounded for three months, phone taken away, tv, computer, friends, and basically everything. His grandpa is in the hospital, he is hanging out with the wrong crowd, and he doesnt care about ANYTHING.
The problem is he wont talk to anyone in his family or his so called "friends" I was his person to talk to, and now Im not there because he dosent want me to be there. He is trying to convince himself that he hates me so he can move on....which i understandWHAT DO I DO

2007-03-13 14:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by Alyssa D 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

7 answers

if you are really through with him than you dont need to get involved you will send him mixed messages. do you have a school or church counselor that he could talk to

2007-03-13 14:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by R L 3 · 0 0

Hun. What you need to do is fight his own feelings. What I mean by that tell him that you still care for him and that your worried that he is going to do something really stupid and your afraid that he'll never come back. You need to tell him how you feel towards him. If he won't tak to you on the phone go to his house. All he is doing is trying to get over yo uin the wrong way. he don't love you anymore because you might of hurt him or someting. But in his heart I still think that he loves you and thats why he is ruinig hias life. Talk to him. Don't ignore it.

2007-03-13 14:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0 0

Store away the good memories and move on with your life. You are not responsible for his behavior.

2007-03-13 14:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0 0

Not much you can do except let him hit bottom. Then maybe he can help himself and get counseling then. You can try to hook him up with counseling but unless he wants it, there is not much chance.

2007-03-13 14:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to move on becAUSE HE DID IN THE WRONG WAY , BUT IT NEVER GETS BETTER

2007-03-13 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0 0

maybe hes doin all of these thing b-cuz he misses u maybe he wunts to get back

2007-03-13 14:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

mind your own business and move on.

2007-03-13 14:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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