Not because you dont love the person anymore, but because it has been the samething over and over.
What do you do when you get that urge?
2007-03-13 14:07:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PS - The "other" girl is smokin hot, I mean straight girls want her.
2007-03-13 14:14:40 · update #1
DON'T!!!!!!!!!! maybe talk to your other half and figure out how to fix whatever is wrong...so that you don't have the urge to cheat
2007-03-13 14:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by queenie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question may be why do you want to cheat?
1. Is it because this girl is hot and you want her body?
2. Or is it because you are ready to end your relationship?
If it's #1, go buy a good sexy book like "101 nights of great sex", and start shaking up your marriage. Maybe your wife will love you all the more for it.
If it's #2, end your relationship - THEN go after the hot girl.
You'll feel a lot less guilty and look better to the hot girl (and your friends) for doing this by thinking with your head that's on your shoulders.
2007-03-13 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a councilor. Do not be alone with the smokin hot, you will fall. In so many words you already have. Bring home some examples ,photos and have your wife dress to kill for bed, for you. Get a trainer to put your wife in shape, and put a little lust stress on her. Get both of you back into shape. Go to club med. If your going to cheat, cheat with your wife, agree to get rowdy for a set period of time. She gets what or whom she wants, and you be quiet. You have no one in mind yet. At this point when you have the road cleared for takeoff, the hot one will not speak to you again. goood luck.
2007-03-13 14:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, temptation is always and everywhere, for you and for all of us....... and you can now begin your career as a bed jumper, or tell your spouse that you have skidded to a new low, and allow her to dump you and find a person worth her.
If you wish to save your marriage, seek some counseling, and reign in your hormones. Even your name suggests you're about 37 1/2 degrees off the bubble. In a marriage, betrayal is really the only deal-buster, 'cuz hon, when the trust is gone, it is all gone.
2007-03-13 14:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and look at the consequences of what those actions could cause. And the pain and hurt that it could cause the person your cheating on.
What do you do, you resist the temptation, avoid it at all costs. It's not worth the pain and hurt not only for yiou, but for the person that you cheat on, and also to your family, because if you cheat, it not only affects your spouse, but if you have kids, it affects them as well.
Also, it doesn't matter what this other woman looks like, if you love and respect your wife, you won't hurt her like that just for a fling.
2007-03-13 14:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at my marriage pics, look at my kids and think about why we are where we are in the first place. Try to spice it up. Remember that it is fun to flirt, but when actions take place-it isnt that much fun anymore. And if you are doing stuff behind someones back, then you have guilt. No fun there. Wanna try something new....get a toy.
2007-03-13 14:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by bratzmom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. How would you feel if your spouse cheated on you?
2. Remember your vows!
3. Ask yourself if you could live with yourself after.
4. Ask yourself if it's worth it.
5. Find a hobby.
2007-03-13 14:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find something else to occupy your time and mind. And try to spice things up at home. Wouldn't hurt to remember why you married the person you married and try to think of the hurt it will cause them if they ever found out or how you'd feel if they cheated on you.
2007-03-13 14:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about all you have and that love and would you throw it away for something different or new? May I suggest instead that you try to spice up your sex life or daily life whatever it is you think is boring... If you try this first you may save yourself the cost of attorneys and splitting up all the properties.... Good Luck
2007-03-13 14:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by M B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you and your wife own a house worth 100 thousand - when you divorce for adultery she gets at least half. that means your smokin hot chick is a hooker that cost you 50 thousand bucks. what kind of loser lets himself get ripped off that bad just for a shag?
2007-03-13 14:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel if your spouse done this to you.Look at what it would cost you in the long run if you did cheat and got caught. Cheating isn't worth what you would loose.
2007-03-13 14:13:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋