im 14 and i know im bi, im goin out with a girl, and weve been goin out for a little over a month, and i love her very much, like real love. ive asked a question about this befor like will i go 2 hell. i got 13 out of 14 answers last time saying that no i wont go to hell, but just that one answer that said no got me worried again, everyone says it against the bible and im goin to hell no matter what i do now, its not fair cause love is love, and i love god and jesus and i pray to them everynight saying sorry for all my sins, and thank you for saving me and i love you, but how am i suppose to say sorry for the way i was born?? i really dont want to go to hell, i want to go to heaven, but i also want to be happy with my time on earth. i want to marry a guy though so i can have kids, but i cant chose who i fall in love with, and another thing is it just against the bible to date same sex or marry same sex?
please help! thanks =]
2007-03-13 13:54:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you have the following options:
1) Believe you're going to Hell.
2) Believe you're going to Heaven.
3) Believe you're going to some third, unspecified place.
4) Stop believing in any of it.
I'd go for number 4, but if you're sticking to this idea of there being a Heaven and a Hell, ask yourself whether being in a loving relationship is the kind of thing that'll get you sent to the first or the second place.
Go and love whoever you damn well want!
Stop listening to stupid people who tell you stories about going to spend eternity in a lake of fire when you're not harming anyone.
Go on!
I don't care what it says in the Bible. The Bible says a lot of crazy things - have you read it? I mean, really read it. I recommend the Old Testament for a book that'll make your hair curl.
Go on!
Go and love this girl and be happy. Apart from the agonising about Hell, your story is beautiful and inspiring.
We all waste so much time with this agonising. Do you honestly think that you're gonna lie on your death bed and think "I wish I'd spent less time with that girl I loved..."
Or course you're not!
Do you really think that this God that you believe loves you is going to condemn you to eternal torment because he didn't like the person you fell in love with?
Just do it.
Go, now, and give this girl of yours a massive hug and a kiss.
Are you still here?
2007-03-14 10:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by garik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I wouldnt worry at all. I dont believe in god but if there is one it is not him that wrote the bible, but men who thought women should be subserviant. The same thing goes on all over the world now where women are the weaker sex. You just love your gf and worry about nothing. I am a lesbian babe and believe I should love the person that chose me. Hell is living and being here but heaven is when you go and sleep forever and have no one bothering you. Live your life to the full and do what you want to do. Good luck and be happy. The first answer you got I just told off and said she is totaly wrong.
2007-03-13 14:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is God's choice whether or not you go to heaven. The thing that cracks me up is that all of these people are like, "no, you will burn in hell!' Or, "nope you're going to heaven." How do they know? How does anyone know? I don't know where I'm going. I've messed up in my life, but not to the point of prison. I love my husband and my child and I am completely devoted to them. I read the bible and worship in my own way. Maybe I will or maybe I won't but I always remember that we have a LOVING God. He forgives. He has to because if not he would have wrote us all off a long time ago. Just be you. That's all God asks of everyone. Love Him and worship Him. Live your life to the fullest and be true to Him and yourself. Good luck to you.
2007-03-13 14:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Bates 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My Dear dear Child, you're going to go to Heaven (or whichever place you Belive in) as long as you are a good kind person. Love is Love. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. God already knows you, He knew you before you were born and still Loves you. God Loves, Man Hates. Jesus said absolutely NOTHING about either bisexuals or homosexuals. Jesus asked us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves and to take the big plank out of our eye before we help our brother with his tiny speck....that's what those people who pick on you aren't doing.
Like I said before, God knew who you were before you were even born and if He could live with the way He created you so can you. Give me a shout out if you need anything and Blessings. You deserve them.
2007-03-13 14:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok look this is what i know and i might be wrong but just hear me out ok.......first of all it says in Lev. that a man shouldnt lay with another man as he would a women. and im sure it goes for women too. its saying basicaly that women shouldnt try to take over a man's role....IE putting on a strap on or dressing and acting like a man...........it never said dont have sex with someoen of the same sex...it just says not to lay with that person as u would someone of the opposite sex.....so i think we are ok....but there might be another part of the bible that says different and if so then i would like for someone to tell me so i can do my research and pray about it thanks....
2007-03-13 14:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no Heaven or Hell, That is just fairy tales, Do you seriously believe when you die some spirit is going to float up in the sky or go down to a place with fire and evil devils? I say live your life and f*ck what anyone else thinks.
2007-03-13 15:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweet heart...
You don't have to worry about your sexuality determining your place in t he afterlife. A 14 year old has enough stress to deal with in every day life, please don't worry about this. Ignore anyone who says otherwise. Before you ask "Will God hate me for being queer?", ask yourself "Am I a good person, worthy of being loved?"
That's all it comes down to. Are you happy with who you are? Are you a good person? That's all that matters.
If you are a Christian you know what needs to be done to gain access into heaven. One thing that needs to be done. If you have that covered, you're good. :)
2007-03-13 14:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Any time you point out sexuality, legalistic varieties are going to forget approximately approximately no count number if or no longer there is "biblically/quranically authorized intercourse" in touch or no longer and easily act such as you stated "i'm in love with an unrepentant, grimy whore", so those extremist varieties, who curiously do no longer differentiate between being some thing and having teh secksay time, are, of path going to declare "no". one in each and every of my bisexual friends informed me as quickly as that she'd be chop up in 2. 0.5 is going to heaven, the different 0.5 to hell, so it fairly is going to be only like this life, yet warmer on her naughty bits.
2016-09-30 21:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to worry about this. Love your life and enjoy it, when all is said and done if you can honestly say you are a good person you will go to heaven.
Period end of story.
2007-03-13 14:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart listen to me: dont you pay attention to anyone who tells you that you "wont go to heaven"! Thats absolute nonsense luv. You can have a good relationship with god and still be bi. There is NOTHING wrong with you! And youre right! How are you supposed to say sorry for the way you were born?? You shouldnt! God made you the way you are honey! Be proud of that! And YOU WILL STILL GO TO HEAVEN!! I promise sweetie! You'll see!
2007-03-13 14:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by pure&simple 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋