Help me..as a 14 year old in junior high..it seems like my life just can't get any worse! i wanna enjoy my life, but my friends are leaving me, and my friend jilliann spreads gossip about me, and i thought i liked this boy and he liked me, but now, he always takls to other girls who have blond hair, and appear "sexier" than me...and i'm not popularm and i get made fun of, an dit really pisses me off, and my older sis is so hurtful and i ust want to make my life better..what do i do?
2007-03-13 13:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just get new set of friends and start thinking positive.
2007-03-13 20:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
school life sucks! No doubt about that! If your friends are talking about you i think i'd find new ones--guys, well there are plenty of fish in the sea-your young yet don't even worry about that trust me girl things could be so much worse and so bad just keep it real, study hard, and enjoy your youth-oh and about the sister thing that's how it is with everyone who has siblings so no worries = think positive !!!
2007-03-16 11:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥fungirl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You are still trying to find your "voice" in this world and with puberty in full blossom, mood swings and uncertainty will be almost daily companions.
You need to look within yourself and decide what kind of person YOU want to be. Not what Jillian wants you to be, not what some hormonal boy thinks he wants from you, not what your sister says (older sister's have one job function: to make the life of their younger sister miserable).
Time is a great equalize and what you thought was really, really important today will not be so important a year from now. If you know a person is a jerk, guess what? They ARE a jerk and you want nothing to do with them.
Do what you like and what you feel you want to do (except smear Ben Gay in your older sister's bra. Not a good move)
2007-03-14 22:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i know what you mean, so......well, to begin wiht, you should find new friends, and don't mourn over the ones that you lost, cause it will only make your life worse(or not, since you don't think it can get worse lol)
the most important thing is to ignore the ppl that make fun of you, just pretent that they don't exist at all in this world!
and don't even try to be popular, cause these ppl are usually losers when they grow up! they realy bugg me! arrg!
well, i hope this helped a little
oh and thanks for adding me to your contacts! it's really nice of you =D
2007-03-16 13:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by teddy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same things gon on wit me except the guy part. But ya i just decided to forget my supposed to be friends they actn all retarted tryn bring me down. So i decided to get new friends i'm not popular but i'm cool with everyone know one hate me except the two supposed to be friends and i don't talk to them. so i'm don pretty good. being cool wit evryone is cool because no on e hate syou and you always have some one to talk to during class and when ever so dump your friends and try to get cool wit everyone. Make sure if some one tells you all the lies that your friends said about you tell them the truth and they'll believe you at least the people believe me at my school. ?? hope it helps
2007-03-14 03:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chantal..carpe diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try new inerest in order to make new friends and tell the other stupid girl to stop gossipping about you. There is obviously something about you she is jealous of and is insecure.
2007-03-14 19:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋