My friend has is really quiet and she doesnt have any friends but me. well im leaving next year and she'll be by herself. ppl in our school already hates her b/c they think she thinks she's too good for them and dats why she doenst talk but its not the case. she just has trouble tlkin to ppl and she starts to panick. alot of ppl say just send her to a doctor but nuttin is free in here and we dont have dat kind of money. So if you could help her than i'll appreciate it. thanx!!
2007-03-13 13:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by abigail s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why dont you introduce her to some of your friends.. or teach her how to be outgoing.. or something
2007-03-13 13:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is going to have to develop a more outgoing personality. But do it in steps, one little step at a time and shes going to have to want to do it. Start by going out with her to places where the school kids hang out to show them shes not a nerd. Slowly bring her into your circle of friends and sooner or later she will probably take a chance and talk to one of them. Getting out more will probably help her more than anything else. Just tell her to be a normal teenager. The other kids treat her for what shes portraying herself as to them. She needs to change her image to them. The quiet ones if I remember in high school were usually the smart ones and God knows every high school student needs help in one subject or another.This may be just the thing she needs to do to meet new friends. Start small conversations at first then work her up. She will really be amazed at how easy it is to talk to people once she gets started and how quickly it snowballs and before she knows it, she ll be on here asking how to shut up. Change her image and build her confidence up a little and she ll be alright. No real need here for expensive drs, just look inside of herself, the answer she seeks is there. Good luck
2007-03-13 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to go and see the school counsellor and talk to him about the problem, they should be able to give her some advice on how to start opening up. Why don't you get her to start talking to people more even if she just says hello that is a start, you could also help by explaining to people that she is just really shy and that she finds it hard to communicate.
2007-03-13 20:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can tell a shy, sweet girl from a quiet, stuck-up type. If your friend is giving off those signals, others are getting them. Encourage her to be more friendly, whether she's quiet or not. You can say a lot with a smile.
2007-03-13 20:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intreduce her to some of ur close friend and tell them whats the story about your friend, go out as much as you can may b for a dinner, movies, mall, etc...just anywhere so she would feel friendly and comfortable with the people that you know. also tell her not to feel nerves or scared and that she can trust them if thats so.
G'luck :)
2007-03-13 20:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to do stuff with other friends and introduce her to new people, she will start to feel more comfortable with people the more you do that and encourage others to talk to her and tell them the truth so that they won't think the same things about her...good luck to both of you!
2007-03-13 20:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by krazykat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurt her to find ways to be more sociable!! Talking does not harm you, and she needs to be aware of that!!
2007-03-13 20:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try to hook her up with one of your friend i mean it benefits three sides, your, her, the hookers side and in that case the three of you's will be feeling better.
2007-03-13 21:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by ßøöʼš ɷ ĞĩŗƔˠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope your not leaving for college next year and you are graduating with that vocabulay,.. chickie you cant spell for sh!t. seems like you are the one that needs help
2007-03-13 20:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Help her talk to people...........
2007-03-13 20:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋