my partner.. she loves me and I do, and I'm usu polite & kind with poeple, but when it comes to her,, I turn to another person ( rude , shouting, smile rarely, insulting her sometimes although I regret later ) .
the next day I feel depressed cause of what I have done before.
I admit she sometimes drives me crazy as she almost doesnt match with my standerds and doesn't apply my views.
2007-03-13 13:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
in fact we've got two kids and expecting the third one soon...
2007-03-13 15:29:00 · update #1
well to me it seems like you don't know what you want or what goes on in your own head, so you need to get your priorities straight before you really hurt your partner
2007-03-13 13:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would make both your lives miserable? You have almost admitted you could really care less about her, so why treat her less then human? Let her go so she can find someone who will fully love and respect her. It doesn't matter whether she is up to your standards or views as long as you love that person. Your not better then she so until you stop thinking like this you will never find someone who is.
2007-03-13 21:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by dollynjanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you need to have some counselling to find out why you treat her this way. Do you really love her and if you do you had better do something to sort this out before you lose her. My bf drives me mad sometimes but there is no way that i would treat him like this even though sometimes i feel i could strangle him.
2007-03-13 20:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is not even close to love. It's control, and abuse.
Do her a favor and let her go. SHOVE her out the door if it will make you feel like more of a man.
2007-03-13 21:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally , I think you're she's catering to your needs financially and Physically , and the reason why you don't care, is because you're not connected to her Emotionally.
PEACE
2007-03-13 21:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by INFINITY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling. Talking to someone will help, and you should also both get into couples counseling as well.
2007-03-13 20:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine what it is going to be like when she walks out on you.
2007-03-13 20:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you dont love her. stop telling her that. leave and stop being a jerk.
2007-03-13 20:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont love her anymore
its over!!!
2007-03-13 20:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by *L-I-V-E* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you, your an a**hole! That's what's wrong with you.
2007-03-13 20:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by ryan_dobson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋