Is my daughter a lesbian????

Question

My daughter is constantly spending time with her female friends in her room... and sometimes they come out barely dressed... they are constantly hugging and one day i walked in on my daughter and her friend in a comprimising postion but they said they were doing yoga. what should i do?? pls help

Answer 1

if she is a lesbian, in time it will show, watch her from a short
distance, and try not to give her the feeling that you are watch
ing her. remember that women can pick up on things super qu
ick. at this point, im going to go out on a limb and say that she
is not a lesbian? and i hope that in time, that she wont prove
me wrong?

Answer 2

Ask her in an off-hand way. Don't confront her or she will say whatever it is that you want to hear. Be supportive, and offhandedly comment positively about lesbians whenever you hear about them on the news, just so she knows that you are not homophobic and will not disown her if and when she comes out.

Answer 3

If she is a lesbian why does that matter? She is still your daughter and her sexual orientation should not matter. Why don't you just ask her if you want to know? Why would you treat the situation differently because it is with females instead of males?

Answer 4

HAHAHAH Im sorry but its a funny response from your daughter(LOL-Yoga)...If she is a lesbian.. I hope one day you too can look back on this and laugh too..This will come after you have accepted her...Remember she is your daughter..and we cant help who we love and desire...Neither can your daughter..She deserves to be happy..with whom ever she prefers : )

Answer 5

I think the best thing to do is ask her. Maybe she is too shy to tell you & once you ask her she will be able to come out. Im sure it will only make your relationship stronger. Just be sure your ready to hear whatever answer it may be. Good Luck

Answer 6

Live and let live. Sheesh. Would it be a bad thing if your daughter was a lesbian? If she is, I hope for her sake that you're not one of those parents who talks such behavior down and speaks ill of gays/lesbians. My parents raised me to believe that being gay or bisexual is 'wrong'. It took me years to come out to them as bisexual and my mom kicked me out of the house for it. Thankfully, we got things ironed out between us, but we still have the occasional rocky point.
I could go on and on, but it really comes down to this- please, if you love your daughter, don't judge her for who she loves or who she takes interest in sexually. She's still your daughter, whether she's a lesbian, straight or bisexual. She deserves understanding and the last thing she needs is a closed-minded parent breathing down her neck when she's trying to discover who she is.

Answer 7

ok here is what i would do see if there is like any signs of it go to her room look in the drawers and see if there is like any thing about her writtin in a dairy or something what kind of posters does she have in her room are they all of girls just look for signs like that even if you asked her i dont think she would tell you untill she was ready just pray about it it will turn out ok peace

Answer 8

Ask her. You can't tell unless you see an obvious sign. Ask in a very non-judgmental way, or ask how she feels about the issue and bring it up in a "if you ever decided this was who you are, I'd support you" way. You're the parent, its your responsibility to ask questions and it is your business.

Answer 9

Support her and educate yourself and her. Sadly, abuse and STDs can happen in lesbian relationships. Also, you might want to ask her about her sexuality and assure her that you love and support her no matter what her sexuality is.

Answer 10

You need to ask HER.

You are a family, you need to be able to talk about these things openly and without judgment. Hopefully you are one of those parents who will love their child not matter what. If she knows that she is more likely to be open with you.

But she may just be a girl who is close to her friends.

You need to ask to know.