i had been on the roof of my motor home and i heard my son talking about gay stuff to his boy cousin.then when it was time to go they kissed.but can your answers not be like your lying or stuff its true.
2007-03-13 13:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It depends on the kind of kiss. Why don't you just talk with him and find out how he feels?
2007-03-13 13:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by annvictorblue 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
None of us can say for sure, but yes it does sound a bit suspicious. It also depends on what age he is. If he’s just a young kid, then it could be innocent. If he’s a teenager, then I’d say there’s a good chance he’s gay.
You could ask him, but there’s no guarantee he’ll give you an honest answer. When I was a school kid I knew I was gay, but it was like a big secret and I lived in fear that anyone would find out. It’s maybe best to bring the subject up without asking him straight out. You could wait until something gay related is on Tv and get talking about the subject then.
The thing about human nature is it’s all the same (no matter what the sexuality). A young guy will want to have a good look at a nice looking girl. If he’s gay he’ll do the same, only he’ll look at a cute guy. You should watch how he reacts when he sees good looking people (of both sexes) and see if you can pick up any clues.
2007-03-13 13:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by MrCute 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you dont say how old either of them are, and what was the "gay stuff" they were talking about. they are modern kids so they will talk about things that you would have thought were only thoughts when you were a kid. I think you have panicked and have developed " the road to gay" thing. Your his father so talk to him as one, tell him you were on the roof of your motor home and heard their discussion and the kiss, Good luck but somehow I just dont think you have anything to worry about
2007-03-14 07:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if he's 'on the road to being gay'? Does it matter if he is gay? I really wish people wouldn't do this... this is the second question like this I've found that's been asked in the last hour (and I'm sure there are many more). Why is it such a big deal for someone to be anything other than straight? Love is love, regardless of gender.
2007-03-13 14:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is, but then again is he going through that faze in his life? Being a concerned parent you should explain what you saw and heard and ask him to sit down and talk to you about it. First you must enforce to him that you will Love and support him if he is gay and not condemn him and that you will always be there whenever he needs your help and advice, doing it this way will be the most reassuring way for your son to come out and talk openly about it to you.
Be strong and be supportive and good luck in your attempts.
2007-03-13 21:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is already gay, sorry. I dont think a straight guy would kiss anothey guy. You shouldn't ask him. You should just wait until he tells you, otherwise he wil feel very offended. Maybe you should just causally say that you would be okay having a son who is gay, then maybe he will come out and tell you. If you're not okay with gay people, you should try to accept him for who he is. Its better than having a gay son than no son at all (if you dont accept him, he'll probably be mad at you forever) God Luck
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2007-03-13 13:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Susie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
either your son is gay or not, he's not "on the road" as you call it. I suggest that you try doing something called "research" and learn that being gay is genetic just like a recessed gene. He may very well be gay but doesn't want to tell for and now I understand why, because it is obvious to me that you are somewhat homophobic and will disown him and kick him out and sooooooooooo what?! if he did kiss his couzin, after all they are family. You are blowing the kissing out of proportion. Chill out.
2007-03-13 14:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to be as rational as possible this does not mean you should ignore your feelings but it does mean that you should be very delicate when apporaching your son about this.
Have you had any other reason to believe he is gay?
Find out about his cousin.
How do you feel about this? Are you upset, ok with it?
Understanding your own feelings is vital when communicating with your son. Do not reject him, no matter what your feelings about homosexuality might be.
2007-03-13 14:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres a clue if hes kissing anyone at all give him a sex talk about regular and then add in the gay stuff and ask him who he thinks about when he is masturbating thats my test if he thinks about men exclusively then hes gay but ,, if he thimks about women men are visual sexualy so if he has awoman he thinks is sexy then he may just be experimenting young boys do that sometimes or the cousin is gay and trying to recruit him so just try honesty go fishin or take him to lunch in the mall and on the way ask him or on the way back ,,
2007-03-13 13:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think before I could answer this question I would need to know what you meant by "gay stuff".
But as far as kissing his cousin - I kiss my family all the time, that doesn't mean much.
2007-03-13 13:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say with the limited info you gave...what "gay stuff" were they talking about? How old are they? If they were like 15 I'd say yes - if 6, kinda early to call...
2007-03-13 13:24:44 · answer #11 · answered by TJ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋