I have asked so many questions about my ex on here & I have received great advice. The big question is should I tell his girlfriend? This is the same girl he left me for after only being married a very short time. I don't talk to her now the only way I could do it is by e-mail. I just don't think it's fair he gets by with this. I haven't been right by sex w/him but this girl also knows he left me for herself. He's doing the same thing to her that he did to me. I refuse to see him or talk to him. We don't have children together so there are no ties there. So do I tell her?
2007-03-13 13:05:20 · 30 answers · asked by !Sweetie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good God, Girl - get OUT of this ridiculous triangle. What damage you are doing to your self-esteem, I cannot even begin to describe!!!! Leave him to his girlfriend - he will cheat on her soon enough with someone else. YOU need to go find someone who will be true to you and vice versa. This is a highway to nowhere.......
2007-03-13 13:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, basically you`ll get two prices here.
first, spit the fact that your ex husband came back for more. When your ex husband left you for her...how did you feel? didnt you feel betrayed? The girl disrespected your marriage so you can tell her the truth to hurt her or just let her know whats going on. Second price you let her know because you're concern so thats a bonus kindeness right right.
2007-03-13 13:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you continue to have sex with this guy ? you do know that he is just using you right? because if he did care enough he would of worked at his marriage and leave that other girl rather then leave you whom he was married to..any who..you wont win anything by telling her..he can easily say that youre lying because you are his ex and any woman who has self respect will not have sex with her ex husband who left her for another woman..and they would probably not leave each other..in both cases here hunny sorry to say..but you loose..i tihnk your holding on to something here and its not going to work..so let it go..if its broken dont try to fix it..the glue isnt strong enough to hold thepieces together..
2007-03-13 13:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being made a fool of. He has his cake and eat it too. I just really think you are lowering yourself to his standards. He left you, so you need to move on. Not only is he sleeping with his new girlfriend, he is also sleeping with you and having a blast on both ends. You can tell her and it will not make any difference because you look just as bad as she does.
2007-03-13 14:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly have you ever advised her which you had a protracted term relaltionship? in case you in basic terms tell her which you had a gf for 4 4 years then that kind of provides it away which you had intercourse together with her, yet now, in case you haven't any longer , then dont tell her as that's merely too previous due. you may in basic terms tell her if she asks in any different case.. in my view i do in comparison to conversing approximately previous relationships and such despite if it is not a large deal because of the fact it merely brings up misunderstandings and assumptions.
2016-10-02 01:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, but not by e-mail. That is just plain rude. Be a woman and tell her face to face. I would understand if that was the way you found out, but not be a woman about your mistakes. Tell her what goes comes right back around.
2007-03-13 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Blossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her and you need to stay away from the loser.
You know exactly what kind of person he is because you were married to him and now you are having sex with him while he is in another relationship. You need to drop him for good.
2007-03-13 14:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - payback is a b*tch.
And so are you! Hah!
Kidding. Sure - burn his arrogant a s s.
Actually, if you really want to see him twist, get both of them together and tell her, or get lots of evidence, then give him 48 hours to tell her before you do. Or do him in their bed when you know she is coming home. Hot dog!
Free entertainment for the neighbors!
2007-03-13 13:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as he is not married to some one else, u need not bother urself about keeping posted. Do not show ur superiority or winning streak to his gf. Who knows ur ex may desert u again any time. That is his nature.
2007-03-13 14:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont say anything to her and get out of what ever you are in! its a mess and you are going ot cause way to much drama than needed. Karma will come and get them both!
Just keep away forget about the both of them!
2007-03-13 13:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋