Everybody can't love u. So how do u deal when u find out that someone hates u?? I go into a huge depression mood. And even when i hate that person back. Why do i do this and how do i train myself to not feel this way??
2007-03-13 12:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I completely understand you, the same thing happens to me, but you just have to think that there is nothing wrong with you is them who are wrong, and If somebody doesn't like you? so what? do you owe them something, do you owe them what you eat or what you wear f*** them if they don't like you, you are gorgeous!
Good luck!
2007-03-20 09:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by united we stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the queen of denial! I won't sink into a depressive mood, thinking about it. If a person turns out to hate me, I'll just break off contacts with him/her (usually a her) and start on forgetting that we ever met. It works for me. But I had trianed myself to forget, when I was very young. It was to disconnect myself from my bad childhood. So it's easy for me to forget now. It's habit. I doubt someone as sensitive as you could forget though.
2007-03-13 21:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R right, everybody can't love you..... don't take it personally.
What ever the reason....each individual has different tastes, likes and dislikes.....ya can't please everyone all of the time.....Try to dwell on the positives and not the negatives....
a positive attitude will generally have positive results....
The people that don't like you really don't have a place in your life....a fleeting annoyance that's all.....
2007-03-21 11:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Odyssey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep this in mind, my dear. You weren't put on this Earth to make other's like you, nor to impress somebody. Most people who say they 'hate' someone, it's jealousy, and jealousy kills. Be yourself, and N O T H I N G less-- Good Luck!
2007-03-21 17:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people that I dislike and people that dislike me. It is human nature. If you have done everything you can to be nice to someone and they "hate " you, well then it is their loss. Don't obsess over the person you don't like, its natural, just forget about it or ignore them.
2007-03-21 15:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haters are just jealous. Love it, the problem lies with themselves not with you. Be empowered don't let them get in your head. Focus on you, and making you better, to hell with what people that don't like you think.
2007-03-21 13:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by RoxanneZG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, i guess you think if someone doesn't like you - then there's something wrong with you.
You just have to realise...WHO CARES..... why is it worth worrying that someone doesn't like you. It's one person and you have many more friends that do like you.
2007-03-13 19:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋