2007-03-13 12:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by penelopa 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yep. Perfectly. If you think your libido, or desire for sex is the problem, see your Gyn. You could be depressed, have low thyroid, or other things that can be improved on.
If you just haven't found anyone you like or desire, that's normal. Most women don't have the same desires as men, and most need more mental stimulation than just pure visual.
You've made a good start, read up on things and don't pay a lot of attention to all the 'women's magazine's' and their articles. Rubbish.
Whatever you feel is right for you, is normal for you, period.
Just check out any health issues that might be keeping you from pursueing a relationship and more happiness.
Best of luck to you!
2007-03-13 12:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Marie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I see most of the answers have been moralistic and abstinence by choice. But if you are asking whether it is normal to not have a sex partner because you can't seem to find one, yes it is normal in each person's life to have a "drought". Perhaps this is an insecurity issue or something else, maybe even physical in nature (in which case you need to see a Doctor).
I personally lost my virginity at 19, yet waited 4 years for #2 because I was a mal-adjusted inferiority-type person at that period in my life along with having not been born with real people skills to figure out women's intentions, so I just couldn't score. I even had a mercy f**k given to me by a friend as I was gradually getting back into dating and figuring out how to better relate with and attract the opposite sex.
But believe me, things have looked "up" since that time. Go get 'em.
2007-03-13 20:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"normal" is a hard word. Is it Normal for YOU? That is a better question. Are you ok with that? Some people really don't like sex much.
2007-03-13 19:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.
It's everyone's personal choice whether to have sex or not. These days it pays to be careful with all of the STDs out there. It's not safe.
2007-03-13 21:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tara662 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your libido has probably dropped, it could be your age (if you're old; sex drive tends to drop around middle-age), or maybe you can't find a guy or have no time. for some, it's normal; for sex animals like me lol, I need and have it almost daily.
2007-03-13 21:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, I was married, maybe that was the problem.
Just kidding. However long you go without sex is normal.
There is nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-13 23:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's been 16 1/2 for me! yes i'm a virgin lol but still
2007-03-13 19:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Becs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're married it's probably not normal. But if you're not wed, it's perfectly normal.
2007-03-13 19:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Z, unnecessary letter 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on you. There is nothing wrong with that. There have been people who go years.
2007-03-13 20:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i havent had sex in 15.5 years
2007-03-13 19:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋