i have friend,who has a wife who;s also a friend,from church, i get along with the husband, hes always complimenting me on my clothes,and suggesting i wear a skirt, he listens to me,and always looks at me, and whenever the group hold hands,he holds mine, i do find him attractive,he squeezed my hand too. although i would never go with him as hes married,and also a friend of his wifes, also hes a christian,as am i and dont believe in adultary, i just sense that he likes me more
2007-03-13 12:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by caseydaisey1000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we only hold hands as part of a circle, and id not persue it , both their friendships mean too much to me, and i know its morally wrong, but hes always saying things like" there must be someone you like at the church,
2007-03-13 12:52:07 · update #1
Move on before you get messed up with this guy!
2007-03-13 12:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not mistake the attention of a good christian man for anything that what it is. you dont need an answer to that question IF you are a christian that wants to honor God. just do your part and stay away from temptation. you can say you wouldnt but by being curious it's clear you are very tempted. if it's obvious to a stranger it's probably obvious to his wife.
2007-03-13 19:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unfortunate you're having to be in such a situation. I'm sad for Christians who choose to act that way...he knows better, and if his heart was in the right place he wouldn't be doing inappropriate things like this.
Basically, you just need to stay away from him. Avoid him. Don't sit/stand next to him at church. Avoiding someone really isn't that hard if you really want to do it...
2007-03-14 05:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by emay02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action is preceded by thought. You're here expressing your thoughts. Be careful and stay away from him would be my advice. That he is a Christian means nothing when it comes to biology.
Sounds like you are both attracted to each other and an affair is on the way...peace
2007-03-13 19:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you, and given half the chance would take it further. Men (& women) do this sort of thing. He's married to your friend for God's sake. Leave him alone!
2007-03-13 19:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand it's going to be heard to like somebody more.She is to be your Friends so try and find someone out of the circle.
2007-03-13 22:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he IS definitely attracted to you, the question is if he's gonna cheat on his wife... or leave her for you! let him make the first move and then follow your own moral... if u think it's ok, roll wit it, if not, then tell him how you feel, if he doesn't understand that means he's an asshole and he doesn't deserve you...
2007-03-13 19:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by paulipauli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he could be attracted. So be careful, as the consequences of something inappropriate could be bad for everyone.
2007-03-13 19:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a married man ~ why are you attracted to him and he shouldn't be holding your hand... He is - a married man.
2007-03-13 19:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he could be attracted to you- being married doesn't erase centurys of carnal instinct...but it does sound like you wish he wasn't married!
2007-03-13 19:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by theWord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋