im trying to find/make an arousal scent so my friend and his fiance can spice up their love life. Please help i think they're on the verge of giving up!
2007-03-13 12:33:09 · 3 answers · asked by koolguy402003 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ooh, my favorite type of question! Start with a base of sesame oil, which penetrates the skin better when applied topically.
Sensual Massage Recipe One
4 ounces of your preferred carrier oil
15 drops of rose oil
15 drops of ylang ylang oil
10 drops of jasmine oil
Sensual Massage Recipe Two
4 ounces of your preferred carrier oil
15 drops of rosewood oil
10 drops of geranium oil
8 drops of jasmine oil
4 drops of neroli oil
The Spicy Sensual Massage
4 ounces of your preferred carrier oil
15 drops of sandalwood oil
9 drops of cinnamon oil
6 drops of peppermint oil
5 drops of black pepper oil
Don't forget to test your oil mixture before applying too liberally to your partner's skin - apply to a small area and wait a few minutes, watching for any kind of reaction.
As always, those with highly sensitive skin types should take additional care when considering the application of essential oils to the skin.
The Massage Itself
The sensual massage has been called 'the dance of love'. It is a gift of intimacy, which by definition incorporates caring, and communication. Likewise, the giving of a truly sensual massage requires that one listens carefully to the needs, and wishes of their partner.
Start by ensuring that your partner is comfortable, warm, and relaxed. Begin the massage by applying warmed oils, mixed with a mutually enjoyed carrier, to the area of the body you want to work first.
Many begin with the back rub, an excellent area through which to achieve a heightened level of relaxation, and a more open line of communication.
Keep your strokes light at the start, listening attentively to the reactions of your partner. Their communications will be both spoken, and intimated through body language. The lighter the stroke the better, unless indications are that additional pressure would be preferred.
Continuous movement is important to the flow of the massage - when working on the back, begin at the neck, taking your fingers gently down the spine, and off to the side in a smooth, fluid motion. Let one stroke lead into another, avoiding sudden movements, always focusing on the needs, and responses of your partner.
Keep your massage varied, using different strokes, and shifting to changing areas of the body. Balance opposing limbs, working one, then the other.
Some couples enjoy using 'props' to take the sensory nature of the experience beyond what simple fingers to skin can bring. Consider incorporating feathers, silk, or fresh flowers into your event - but don't rub too lightly, or you may send your partner into a tickle induced fit of laughter - enjoyable in most cases, but perhaps not as sensual a moment as one may be hoping for!
Always pay close attention to the state of relaxation your partner is in. Sleep is a possibility with any massage, but a true sensual massage walks this line carefully, ensuring a partner who is aware, capable of communicating their needs & enjoyment, and of sharing in further intimacies that tend to flow naturally from such moments!
Engaging your partner in a moment dedicated solely to one another is one small way of ensuring a relationship that is positive, communicative, and intimate in more ways than one.
2007-03-13 12:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pumpkin spice and Cinnamon are male aphrodisiacs.
Rose, jasmine and other florals are female aphrodisiacs.
2007-03-14 02:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by AmyB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send them on a cruise or trip and pay it as a gift.
2007-03-13 19:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋