k i hadnt talk to a girl for a long time since like a year or something cuz i was in my parents country and they had strict christian religious customs which was sex segregation...
so i come bak to school and there this girl i like since 6th grade and we talked on aim and stuff... but i wud alwayz crack her up and she thought i was hilarious and stuff... but wen i came back to school and i tried talking to her i kept blushing my whole face turned red and i couldnt think of anything to talk about... i mean we real good friends wen we tak on the internet but i get stuck wen i talk 2 her in real life and my whole face turns red...
she knows i like her which kinda makes thigns easier... i am 14 and she almost 14 in a week
also wen i think of her i dont tihnk of sex that much i just think of talking to her and making her laugh and touching our cheeks and kiss on the cheek... does that mean i like her for her personality ( think i do) or for her body?
2007-03-13 12:32:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no the thing is i can perfectly talk to her on aim and msn but as soon as i see her in real life i choke
2007-03-13 13:01:23 · update #1
also i liker her since 6th grade but neva talked to her until 3-4 months ago
2007-03-13 13:04:17 · update #2
ALSO SHE DOES KNOW I LIKE HER
2007-03-13 13:04:42 · update #3
most likely...u seem to like her for her personality. You are just a little shy and that happens to almost all of us at some point depending on the situation we are faced with. Give it time and hopefully everything will fall into place.
Let her know how ur feeling and hopefully she'll understand the difference as far as being shy when ur arounher goes.
Good Luck :)
2007-03-13 12:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by JamQueen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way. If you enjoy talking to her and she feels the same that talk, be friends and let things happen that are going to happen. I understand the religious aspect of what you are saying but I think that having a friend is ok. If you want more later on than you will cross that road then.
2007-03-13 12:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sound of it you like her 4 her personality especially cause you've been friends 4 a while ask her out take a chance dude thats what lifes all bout i did with my bf and we've been together 3 monthes and 1 day woo hoo Good luck yes u r normal, im weird but who isnt lol
2007-03-13 12:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Heya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like her for her personality, but you are also attracted to her physically (nothing wrong with that as long as it's healthy)
You're just a little nervous, you'll get over it with time as you get more comfortable around her and around girls in general.
2007-03-13 13:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you like this girl its quite obvious why don't you think about what you are going to say to her before you go up to her.. so then you wont get stuck on what to say to her. do you think she likes you? if you do then tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same way but only if you really think she likes you. and hun you like her for her personality not her body!
2007-03-13 12:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a little bit of both - you are young.
you must like her for who she is if you are blushing...and well at that age there are hormones being flung in all directions so...
it is also cause you were segregated from women.
and hey that other quesiton of yours I answered - it is partly because you are young too! - use a condom!
2007-03-13 13:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by rainbow joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...i am a gurl...this guy i hav been bffs with since kindergarden has recentally been like this(i am in 8th grade) i also have a brother and from expierence i would say that you really like her and you have trouble sayin things to her face because you like her that much. but if you really like her and she knows it and she likes you tell her how you feel...it is TOTALLY normal. dont worry.
2007-03-13 14:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by I♥RD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must like her for her personality, because of how you think of her as both a friend and a possible girlfriend and not just about sex
2007-03-13 13:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try thinking that ur talking on AIM
2007-03-13 15:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mr wannabe gangster i would say its a little bit of both
2007-03-14 10:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by 100% Español 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋