my friend recently confided in me that his 10 year marriage has never been consumated, due to his inadequacy.
i rememeber when they got married, she was a drop dead gorgeous woman and she still is.
the funny thing is he only confided in me when the pressure from his family to have children got too much for him.
we never suspected a thing as they seemed so much in love and happy together. he also added that she has never cheated on him and still is as sweet as the first day they got married. why did he marry her?
my question is ... is she for real?
a woman like her who had so many people falling for her
is been untouched for years.
this is driving me mad as i cant comprehend it.
help me please to understand this weird situation!!!!!
2007-03-13 12:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wwwdardar dont say things you dont know about, she is a very good woman and she is not bi or a man
she is a virtuous person, a very selfless human being
someone every man would be proud to call a wife....
and you will need to be a man to unerstand that
i have known them both for 15 years now
so i can vouch for her
2007-03-13 14:07:32 · update #1
women seek more in a relationship like marriage than just sex, guys have a hard time understanding this. your friend must really trust you to tell you this...keep your mouth shut dude unless you don't want him as a friend anymore.
2007-03-13 12:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by HEYYOU 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why something like this is in your head. Now that your friend told you this you think it's your business to What? There's not much you can do. What brothers you more is this women, HIS wife. Leave it alone. You don't know if she been untounced, you think you know, but you don't really. They can have toys in the bedroom, or she can be bi. How do you know or maybe she is a he, how do you know, you didn't know about your friend until now. You had no idea. So you really don't know if this women had sex or not. So what you can't comprehend, don't.
2007-03-13 19:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are more ways of loving a person, than by having sex.
He has a health problem, it's up to him to get help from a doctor, but if they are both happy, why worry.. Also it's none of his families business if they don't have children, it is also up to them.
just be happy he has spoken to you, perhaps he his thinking about help, ask him. Maybe he would like your support.
2007-03-13 19:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must have been quite a suprise but I worry that he should have told you, already you are spreading the gossip. If they have been happy all this time so what , it takes all kinds of things to make a relationship work.
2007-03-14 05:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he can't make love to his wife in the accepted way, doesn't mean he never makes love to her in other ways. There's more ways than one to skin a cat you know!
2007-03-13 19:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all..It's clearly unconditional love they share..If their marriage isn't based on sex,they've got something that most couples never find...True love...
2007-03-13 19:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by trish b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like true love AND committment.Self sacraficing love one for the other.
2007-03-13 19:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wierd. Most married couples wait a few years before becoming celibate.
2007-03-13 19:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Suggest your friend see his family doctor and put this out of your mind. I know what you're thinking and you're wrong.
2007-03-13 19:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must fulfill her in way's that mean more to her than just sex. I guess you'll never really know.
2007-03-13 19:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋