what can a man do to be husband material for a woman?

Answer 1

get a good job

Answer 2

Theoretically any man is a husband material, the question is what kind of a husband do you want to be? What kind of a husband does this particular woman need? Every person is different and what one woman wants is not necessarily what another one does. Some women are okay to be a house-wife and are happy to be dependant, while other women want their husband to see them as an equal partner. So, my answer to you is - it all depends and you have to be true to yourself. If you choose to be in a committed relationship, then you would want to figure out how to make your woman happy and that's about it. Good luck!

Answer 3

1. Make it a point to be beautiful from the inside out. Every woman loves to see that her man cares about himself. This doesn't just mean your appearance, either - take pride in your abilities too - whether you're a sports star adored by millions or an everyday hero (investigating bumps in the night, getting rid of spiders etc.), your wife is proud of you and all that you are, so you should be too!

2. Always greet your wife with a hug and kiss that says that you're happy to see her.

3. Be her greatest supporter. Be someone she knows that she can always count on. Be there for her when she has had a long day. Listen to her with attentive eyes and ears. Back her up 100 percent! Be prepared to talk with her about how she feels, (and, yes, how you feel, too).

4. Talk to her about things that interest you, too - don't worry too much that she'll be bored - she'll be thrilled that you want to share your hobbies with her. If possible, try to find an aspect of your interest that she can join in with (if she doesn't already). The efforts you make to help her enjoy what you enjoy will pay off enormously!

5. Nurture your wife. Little things go a long way! For example, making breakfast, making her coffee/cocoa, giving her back rubs - anything to make her feel comfy and loved. Mutual service promotes mutual respect.

6. Give her space. Let's face it, we can't be face to face 24 hours a day. We all need our alone time, even if it's for just 10 minutes, if you give her that respect, she will do the same for you.

7. Give her unconditional love. Truly unconditional love is a very very radical concept, and it takes a lot of self-discipline. This means love her no matter what. Are you prepared to love her when she's yelling at you and calling you names? When she forgets your birthday? When she's being unfair to you? You don't have to condone these behaviors, but can you still say "I love you" in these cases, and mean it? If you can, that will give her such a feeling of safety and trust that she will love you unconditionally too. If you can't, then you will probably feel unloved when you get angry/distracted/selfish, and display the same behaviors. Remember your vows? Live by those.

8. Your wife, aside from any children, should be more important to you than your other family members, work etc. Treat her as such. If you're worried about looking independent in front of them, then talk with your wife and set clear expectations about what decisions you can make without each other, and what decisions must absolutely be discussed. But also, ask yourself why you feel you should look independent instead of married.

9. A good sex life is very important to most women. Pay attention to the things she likes and the things that make her feel best, even if they are not what you like best. Remember, you're the person who makes her feel most sexy!

10. You are the man she married!

Answer 4

Make sure you get rid of any emotional baggage you have in your conscious and subconscious mind/heart that might later sabotage the relationship. If you harbor anger over a past hurt, from another relationship, or abuse you suffered in childhood, etc., then you have to bring that crap to the surface and deal with it now, before you get married and preferably before you get into a relationship. Also, other things that might interfere in a marriage would be hanging on to old girlfriend's pictures, things, emails, letters, etc. that might pop up when you are combining households, and especially don't bring allot of debt into the marriage, or bad habits, like smoking (unless she smokes too), drinking, drugs, etc.

Aside from the obvious (good hygiene, great lovemaking often, a reasonably good income so you can support yourself instead of expecting her to support you, you should also be a good communicator. That means being completely open and honest with her about your feelings and preferences and it means being a good listener. Good luck!

Answer 5

Wear great smelling calogne, lift weights, brush your teeth, have a great job that pays money, pick up your underwear off the floor with your sox, flush the toilet, give your wife some space, do things on the weekend with your wife not your buddies, fix things in the house that break but first make sure she is compatible and not some crazy chick that would swing a golf club at your face. Women love men that are for real.

Answer 6

Great advise from b_wheeler36 and Strawberry. Only thing to add is to be honest with yourself and her. Communicate, communicate, communicate...very important. Women want a husband they can respect, cherish, grow old with. They want a best friend who they can share life with, the ups and the downs, the highs and the lows. A best friend who laughs at life's absurdities and hangs on during the rough times. One who doesn't give up or give in when the going gets tough. One who will encourage her to be her best and accept her encouragement. Life is better with a partner that can grow, love, laugh and have great conversations. Follow the golden rule, my friend, and it will lead you well.

Answer 7

That would depend on the woman. For me there is nothing a man could do...I don't want to get married.

Answer 8

Love her; Respect her; Adore her; Share with her;
Communicate with her; Support her; Never cheat
on her; Help her with house chores; and last but
not least constantly tell her how much she means
to you; being a husband it works as I have been
with my wife for 20yrs and counting.

Answer 9

To what kind of women?

This always work. Have good education, no debt, and a respectable career. Don't get married until you have accomplished these items. Then you will be very eligible and have lots of choices.

Answer 10

Education, Career , Stability, Home, Credit rating, Cars,
Money, Maturity....

Answer 11

Just be loving and selfless... Love and cherish her and always be honest and true... Learn how to communicate and talk to her and always be faithful to only her and do not cheat. Always be loving and kind and treat her the way that you want to be treated. Love and cherish her and make her feel special at all times. Be romantic and fun to be with and spend lots of time with her.