Being married and not so happy but financally you are good. Or being with someone that does not have alot right now but makes you finally have some selfworth and being out there on your own?
2007-03-13 12:20:40 · 17 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being married isn't important. Having money isn't the most important thing. What is important: self-esteem. And the best is when you get that self-esteem from yourself and not from another person.
So don't marry anyone for the money. What a horrible thing to do to them and to yourself. Don't marry someone "because" they make you feel good about yourself. Find your worth and your happiness in yourself and then marry someone who makes you laugh.
2007-03-13 12:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question Whats more important then your happiness or your financial life. Are you cheating? And are you thinking about leaving your husband for someone who makes you feel self worth but this other person don't have a lot of money and you want to be with him. In a few years you will be single. That other man and you is not going to last. Your probably just in lust. Stay with the man with the money and keep fooling around. Don't make the mistake in fall in love with the first new d i c k comes your way. Have fun and spend spend spend.
2007-03-13 19:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important and good is to be with someone who may not have alot right now but makes me feel loved and special and good about myself. Love goes much farther then money as money cannot buy love or happiness and you can always learn how to make more money down the road BUT it is very hard to learn how to love and be happy with someone if it does not come naturally. I would want to feel loved and special and cherished then to have lots of money and feel lonely and unloved and unhappy. Money and things fade away but true love and happiness stays and lasts forever. Love and happiness is priceless and worth way more then anything that money can buy.
2007-03-13 19:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's more important is if your marriage is unhappy get out of it and live on your own where you will be happy. I rather be out on my own than dealing with a unhappy marriage. It's not worth the stress. There's more ways to enjoy your life than being tied down to an unhappy relationship.
2007-03-13 20:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even MORE important than these two options is finding your own self worth that you can share with someone else. No one can ever give you self worth.
So, I'd chose neither of them for the moment and take some time to get to know yourself.
2007-03-13 19:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Brent S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already have self worth than it's a no brainer to go for what will really make you happy. Life is so much more fulling when you know what's important in your life.
2007-03-13 19:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay married. Get your spouse into counseling with you and diagnose and treat your sickly marriage. What you're contemplating doesn't fix anything, but it has the possibility of making three people miserable.
2007-03-13 19:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the happiest I have ever been and we are not financially secure, but we are working on it together. My last relationship(s) have been with very 'well to do' men, but I wasn't happy with them. What they wanted in life (fancy cars/ huge homes/toys to show off) wasn't important to me. I want nice, but simple. Enough, but not too much. To each his own.
2007-03-13 19:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by sandibum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are depending on somebody else for a sense of self-worth, you're a whack job.
Maybe you ought to just work on finding your own sense of self-worth and heal yourself mentally, and then you can find somebody else with a good sense of self-worth that appreciates a healthy woman?
2007-03-13 19:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Option 2,all the way.
2007-03-13 19:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋