I'm only 16 but I'm @ 1 of the saddest points of my life. Repeatedly in my life, people I hav gr8 friendships w/ just drift from me- even though I'm the greatest friend 2 them that I no how 2b(I run myself into the ground doing everything I can 4 my friends)I'm also trying 2 get over the only guy I've ever loved in my life b/c I don't trust him. B/c I've cared 4 him 4 so long, I'm scared I'll never meet a guy that I will love as much again, & that I'll never be happy. Anybody who was ever close to me has drifted from me- I hear about them partying & drinking and hooking up with random guys & it's hard for me. I stick strongly to what I believe in, so I have never drank or hooked up with any guy- not b/c I haven't had the chance (i've had many) but b/c I have not met the right one yet. Still, I feel like a loser that I'm 16 and hav never been 2 1st base. I tell myself it will b worth it 2 b a good girl in the end, but I hav no way of knowing that. Opinions please from someone who knos!
2007-03-13 12:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Charlotte M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
None of my highschool friends are in my life now.
My best friends I can count on one hand and 2 of them are my sisiters. Who I didnt like in high school.
i didnt meet the man I never want to be without until my 30's.
I guess my point is, don't rush life. Life gets better as we gain wisdom thus making better choices. Strong women rock. As you get older men will appriciate your strength to stand for what you believe is right!
2007-03-13 12:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 your life goes thru many changes and begins to mold you for adult life. Unfortunately friends will come and go during this time period as they, too, are forming their own identity. You have a whole life ahead of you with more than enough time to experience things like real boyfriends and not puppy love. Youre at that age where youre too old for the little kids but not quite old enough to do adult things. Enjoy it while you got it because believe me itll fly by and before you know it, youll be wishing you were 16 again. Dont hurry life because being an adult is really no fun and you cant turn back the clock either.. Just be patient and when youre least expecting it Mr Right will appear. With your telling me that you help your friends out all the time, maybe you just realized a good career for you. The world needs many more people that can and are willing to help others with their problems. Its very interesting work as well as rewarding. So dont worry about a thing thats going on around you, its normal growing up "pains" that youre experiencing. Be yourself and enjoy your life and really think about helping people. Good luck
2007-03-13 12:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are olnly 16. Dude the fun doesn't start until you are about 19. So sit back relax and just check out the guys for now. You have plenty of time. Not kidding. When you turn 18 or 19 is the most fun for reals.
2007-03-13 12:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NYC could be an hour 30 flight inspite of the undeniable fact that it would be costly to stay there AND it ought to take you that long to get to the airport. There are some very wonderful aspects in Buffalo so i does not rule that out. you do not say what your field is - so stressful to evaluate what your strategies for a job would be. A masters ability not lots in some fields. did I say that dwelling in NYC is expensive. you will probable ought to sign a a million twelve months hire and to try this with out interest is unquestionably risky. you will desire to have saved your interest and appeared for something in between the cities you're speaking approximately and then moved. yet in spite of this - it rather is uncomplicated for somebody my age to tell somebody your age what they'd desire to have accomplished - LOL. good success
2016-12-18 12:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your making the right choices just keep it up and your only 16 u really dont need to dat eyet wait awile God will bring a special somone in your life for u just wait it could take up to 5 years but God knows whats right..... ill pray for u k
2007-03-13 12:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥converse♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a great person, you will find that special person. gosh your only 16, you have know idea what great things are coming your way. sex, drugs etc. dont make you a better person it will only make life worse believe me i seen it a thousand times. oh and you cant make people be your friends they just are.
2007-03-13 12:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go emo. You should probably consider if the next sixty some odd years are worth the trouble.
2007-03-13 12:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are an intelligent smart wise young woman...hang on....and be as picky as you want...u deserve the right guy...just hang on
2007-03-13 12:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by g_rant07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋