I like this guy named Chris and he is really nice and funny. But my other friends don't like him. I don't know why.
I really want to go out with him, but don't want to face the criticism my friends might give me. I want to stay friends with both of them without the harsh feelings.
People may say then their not really your friends but they are there for me when i really need it. They support me, but maybe not this time. I don't know what to do. Help me!!
2007-03-13 12:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by Life Is Beautiful at Sixx: A.M. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go listen to Avril Lavigne's "Sk8r Boi" and decide which girl you'd rather be. ;)
Seriously, ask your friends why they don't like him. Are their reasons valid? Do they know information you don't, or are they just judging from rumors or trivial differences? Try to look at the information objectively - is there any reason that dating this particular guy would be negative, dangerous, or unhealthy for you? Then make your own decision, and tell your friends why. If they are really your friends, they will support you even if they think you're making a mistake.
2007-03-13 12:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
On the real though, your the one going out or being friends w/him not them. True friends don't judge. Your not always going to like that ppl they hang with or the men they date and the same goes for you, they aren't always gonna like the ppl you hang w/and the guys that you date. So be yourself and don't take the criticism so harsh let them say what they need to say and move on. Remember it will reflect on you in the long run not them. Be a leader not a follower!!!!!
2007-03-13 12:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by VIRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually (and I know you'll hate me for saying this) those people are sort of right. Your friends are allowed to disagree with you on certain things, but if they criticize you for thinking or feeling a certain way, they need to know that if they want to be friends with you, they need to agree to disagree.
2007-03-13 12:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Tara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to not care what somebody else thinks and follow ur heart. if they really care they support whatever choices u make or if they dont want to support it maybe they just wont say anything about it
2007-03-13 12:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the guy then, ur friends can learn to like him too. And if they really are ur friends then, they probably have their reasons, try to figure out what they are, and see what u want to do.
2007-03-13 12:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by zaira p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times frends dont like boyfriends.. because they feel u will reject them and not spend time with them anymore. so just ask them if it will break ur frendship if u get with him..
2007-03-13 12:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by singing soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE WITH TERESATH
LISTEN TO THAT SONGG
AND AVRIL ROX MY SOX
2007-03-13 12:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by cali_icedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bros before hoes.
2007-03-13 12:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋