2007-03-13 12:03:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bail and find someone with whom you have Chemistry.
2007-03-13 12:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay. Chemistry takes work, it doesn't just happen. You both have to look out for the other a bit. The two of you need to get with a good marriage and family therapist and re-figure out how to get the chemistry going again (you must have had it at one time - you're together).
Another hint: chemists have to study - read some good "chemistry" books together. That should start some sparks!!
2007-03-13 19:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no chemistry and your not marry leave and enjoy your life. If you are marry stay in it than maybe someday you will have the opposite sex come to you with the same problem and work from there. Your not the only one in this world with that type of problem. Don't have sex right away. Make sure you know that person very well (like 1 year) before you do anything. It's dangerous out there to lay down with someone.
2007-03-13 19:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you...asking that question makes me believe that the thought of leaving has already crossed your mind. You can't live your life miserable (trust me - I know - that's why I am divorced) This may sound corny but, maybe when you are alone sit down and write the reasons you want to stay and the reasons you don't - kinda way the pros and cons of the relationship. Look deep in your heart and you'll know. Good luck!
2007-03-13 19:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to buy an old fashioned chemistry set and create some chemistry! Chemistry takes two. If both aren't creating it then it won't happen.
2007-03-13 19:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually what u are experiencing is that u have just realized that the honeymoon stage is over and that u and him are two different people, with different wants and needs. now is the time to work on the relationship, love is not about what u feel but a choice u make to stay even in the face of adversity.
2007-03-13 22:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeymoon phase doesn't last long in most realtionships. But if the foundation is there and its strong, build on it. Chemistry is like a rollercoaster in relationships. At least that has been my experience.
2007-03-13 19:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre married then you have to be truthfull.There was enough "chemistry" for you to say "I do".You also made a promise to love and be faithfull till death.Quit being selfish and spend some time with your spouse, try spicing things up.
2007-03-13 19:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing.And decided on divorce because I don't wanna stay with someone unhappily the rest of my life.Life is too short to be like that.How long have u been married?
2007-03-13 19:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy in a relationship, you should stay. If it just doesn't feel right, then go. It is up to you to decide.
2007-03-13 19:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋