My boyfriends ex-wife is always on the phone to him! He says it's nothing but i'm starting to think she wants him back. We have a 2 mth old son together, What should I do?
2007-03-13 11:38:29 · 29 answers · asked by vixwood1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him to tell her to stop ringing,unless they have a child together cant see why should still be in contact,if was me id tell her myself to get a life and get over it.sounds like she wants to cause troble between you and rock the boat in your relationship,jealousy mainly you got something she hasn't.if they have got a child still no reason to constantly ring,arrangements get made if has a child when takes them back or in an emergency fine other than that no reason atall.tell your bloke get some balls and put her straight.dont worry to much intill you have to..x
2007-03-13 11:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by easty90210 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to phone my x all the time he was my best friend for a long time and still is there to lend a hand some 25 years as my x, just because we could not live together, doesn't change the friendship he came to my wedding stop worrying you are very vulnerable at this time, take no notice it should die down
be happy together with your baby son good luck
2007-03-13 11:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could it be that you now have a baby and she is finding it hard to accept that, which is why she's now on the phone all the time?
I think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how insecure you are feeling, it's very hard when you have a newborn and it may just be you over reacting because you are stressed/tired, but talking is the key.
I'm sure he's right and it is nothing - she is his EX after all, and I'm sure he will put a stop to it if you explain how much it upsets you.
2007-03-13 11:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends what she is phoning him about really. He say's it's nothing but you have to find out why she calls him. If she was really getting on his nerves then he'd change his number. Is their divorce final if so then unless they have a child together then there's no reason she should keep phoning him.
2007-03-13 21:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect is respect he need to respect your feeling. He don't need to be on the phone with her. unless he want her. and he would have to chose, because if you don't stop it now you will be sorry later.
Focus on your child, because if he is not willing to leave the ex-wife along. he would have to be with her. if it was you the ex-wife he would not be on the phone because she would not allow it.
either you with me or with her.
Do they have any children if so that the only thing they need to talk about. other then that calling everyday on the phone holding conversation is out.
2007-03-13 11:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by victory 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when a man wants to cheat that is what he will do and their is not to much you can do about it.Does he have kids with his ex ,if not then I don't blame you a bit for being mad I would be up set to . It does sound like he is doing something to encourage her.You don't want to believe this I no but you don' t no him like you think you do.You only no what he wants you to no and that is it.Did you brake up his marriage,if you did then she will do anything in her power to get him away from you.It doesn't mean she wants him back she just wants to make you unhappy like she has been.If you didn't brake them up then she wants him back and she could care less about you.WATCH OUT.
2007-03-13 12:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should not have any contact with his ex-wife, nor anyone else he has had a relationship with. This contact tempts fate and opens the door to something very bad happening. Out of respect for you and your child, he needs to let her go completely. Since most men love protecting their woman, he SHOULD have no problem with this.
2007-03-13 11:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hate Ex-wife's I'm fighting with this one myself too. You have every Right tot me mad and or frustrated that he is still talking to her they are no longer together and don't need to be talking she is no longer his responsibility and needs to take care of you and your kid together. talk to him find out why he feels the need to keep talking to her, and tell him how much it may hurt you that he talks to her. he needs to know or else it will never stop. Put your foot down!! and you should know that hes with you so he obviously loves you. Good luck
2007-03-13 12:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have children together? Does he tell you what they are talking about? Have they separated in friendship?
As you are his wife, he should be honest with you. Best would be to invite her around. This way you can be there when they talk, assess the situation adn keep your enemy close ;)
2007-03-13 11:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and let him know that all his chatting on the phone with x is bothering you and see what he sayd to it... I mean i know they must somnetimes but not all the time its not fair to you are the baby and if he is not happy then he needs to move thats for sure... good luck
2007-03-13 11:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by prettygirl new orleans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋