2007-03-13 11:36:41 · 27 answers · asked by darth2380 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You suck it up and make her comfortable. This isn't a prime time to be bringing up her flaws (preexisting or new) because she really doesnt need that stress right now. She's just trying to make it through this pregnancy and you're there to take care of her. Even though you're the man, your job is to care for her. She may be having mood swings that knock her on her butt but you just kinda gotta let it role off, becuase she doesn't WANT to be that way either. Patience is the best and remember you're doing this becuase you love her. It'll soften her in the end if you just have patience and try to make her comfortable. She may not always react and it may happen for weeks, but you can't give up and say "I'm just tired of doing it". She's got nine monthes, so do you :-)
Good luck daddy, be a good one!
2007-03-13 12:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and remember how many changes she is going through right now! When she starts to get really bad ask her if she needs anything from the store. That way you can get away and relax for a little bit while still helping out and making her feel special!! Maybe even pic her up some flowers while you are there. Hope this helps!! Good luck and try and keep in mind that it's all worth it because you are going to have a baby :)
2007-03-13 11:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by alaskagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez mate, are you ok? Oh you poor thing.
Here's an idea, why don't you swap places with her. You can be pregnant, feel like crap, and not be able to take any medication for it, feel tired ALL the time, but still fit in a full day, possibly throw up and then get over it and continue the day, be constipated and nausous continuously and remember to put on a happy smiling face for her and not get on her case about anything. All this whilst your hormones are running wild and you don't have any control over it.
Either that, or you could cut her some slack, get over yourself and realise that it won't last forever, and perhaps she could do with some support.
2007-03-13 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by loubylou 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what is annoying? Getting kicked in the ribs when you are so exhausted you couldn't even keep your eyes open with toothpicks. Or throwing up at the smell of just about anything. And most annoying is having a boyfriend or husband that is so self centered to ask a question like this.
2007-03-13 11:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when women are pregnant. You think she's annoying you. Honey, you don't know how much you're probably annoying her right now. I was so irritated with my husband for about 2 months, I didn't even want to be in the same room with him. His breath even bothered me. Ok. She probably doesn't even know she's annoying you and if you say something to her, she'll probably want to take a frying pan to your head. So, I suggest to just stay out of her way for awhile. Tell her you love her and just relax.
2007-03-13 11:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, me and my b/f have a really good relationship, and we really talk about our feelings.
I know I'm overreacting to little things he does at the moment, and I know my hormones are totally out of whack (I'm 32 weeks pregnant), all I can do is apologise to him!
Try talking to your girl, but also, make sure you give her plenty of hugs and kisses and make her feel special - that's what I've been needing a lot of lately!
Pregnancy is a difficult and stressful time, very much so for the woman, which tends to make us forget that you guys are having a hard time too!
Talk it through, and good luck!!
2007-03-13 11:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Krissyinthesun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is pregnant. When you are pregnant your emotions and everything are all screwed up. She really can't help it. Try to make her as comfortable as possible and don't yell at her. That will actually make her mad. Try to bare with it until the baby is born. It might be hard, but it'll be over, and when it is it'll be worth it when you hold your baby in your arms :]
2007-03-13 11:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really being a beeeeyotch, then say something to her. Explain to her what she's doing to bother you and how she should behave differently. If she just wants a little extra love and attention, give it to her, because she really deserves it right now. She's also very hormonal, so confrontation could tick her off. Just give her the attention and respect she needs at this time and she'll be fine.
2007-03-13 11:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by grayhare 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just be thankful that you are not feeling how she is feeling right now. Its can be pretty bad for some women as their hormones are going crazy. This has been a terrible pregnancy for me and I cant help how I feel and it drives me insane to feel depressed, angry, happy, crying for nothing, and so on. Its not a good feeling on top of the aches and pains of pregnancy. Just please be patient with her. It will be over with soon enough and you will have a beautiful baby with her.
2007-03-13 11:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Blondi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is all confused with whats goin on and happening to her she really need your support it might be hard but try to be there for her and be patient im 26 weeks pregnant and i know i annoy my husband but if i get to bad he tells me try to talk to her but nicely and be careful she will probably cry good luck to ya and congrats
2007-03-13 11:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋