ok, i started my period today in school, and i didnt know abotu it. it usually isnt bad, but it was today. i didnt realize it, but it went through my pants, in science. and the teacher came and told me. smoe people thought i crapped my pants. and some people said i left a stain on the chair. What advice can you give me for this? i am really not look forward to school tomorrow, and what can i say to people? how did you handle it? (i handled it like it was no big deal and liek nothign happend) but im not sure anymore. I am SO embarrassed!
2007-03-13 11:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Keep doing what you are doing don't show that you are embarrassed kids will feed off of that. If they try to laugh about it just laugh it off with them. Its perfectly normal function of the body if they make a big deal about it that shows you how immature they are.
2007-03-13 11:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~Romantic_Dreamer~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem every once in a while, but never in public...So, if that happened to me I think I would just tell my friends that" I was on the rag and things happen." If they are really your friends they will be there for you. If kids who are not your friends are teasing you, maybe you can say you sat on something and have no idea where it came from, but don't act embarrased or anything. I'm sorry this happened to you especially at school of all places. It's tough being a girl in this day and age. The girls should understand, but they are prone to be superficial, especially in high school. Try not to worry about it too much, because it may be worse in your head than in reality.
2007-03-13 18:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Some Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handle it the exact way you did. Just act like it was not a big deal at all. It happens, your not the only one, nor will you be the last. I doubt anyone is going to say anything to you. If someone does just tell them you couldn't feel that you had gotten your period. But otherwise just drop it like nothing happened.
2007-03-13 18:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep extra pads in your purse and also carry an extra pair of panties with you in case that happens that you stain right there, then go to the bathroom and change in to the other panties.
As for how I handled it when someone told me something similar (a student did) after getting a bit irritated (because I wasn't feeling well thanks to the hormones) I apologized for getting irritated and thanked her for letting me know and then went to the bathroom to check.
2007-03-13 18:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in life embarrasing situations come.just thats part of life.having periods is some thing natural and its not ur fault,so tommorow when u go to school just act natural and dont think thats a big issue cause if u think it that way then it will make u feel more embarassed.
good luck.
2007-03-13 18:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by kudos_009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happened to me in 8th grade. Luckily my girlfriends helped me out and no one else noticed. If anyone comments on it, if anyone laughs, you should completely ignore them. Don't give them a bit of attention. What you did was exactly the way it should be handled. We're all human; things are going to happen to all of us at one time or another. Don't feed into the immaturity of those who don't have any class. :)
2007-03-13 18:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible situation to be in. U wont be the first to be in this situation and wont be the last. Like the girl answering before me said, laugh with them act like it's no big deal.
2007-03-13 18:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by lisa_t197 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that happened 2 me in last year!!! i was eating lunch and i got up 2 throw it away and my friend came up 2 me and said that i hav something red and relized that it was my period! then next day i just acted casuall and if anyone said anything i justeither tried 2 ignore them or laugh it off
2007-03-13 18:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by magictanya2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b some other girls must have donr the same believe me your not the 1st 1 but if they do say n e thing tell them that its only a accident and that it will probally happen to them 1 day so dont b embarassed b proud your a women now !!!!!
2007-03-13 18:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cam ask ur mom if u can stay home to rest and get ovr it. if not go 2 school and if sum 1 asks say you spilled fruit punch on ur pants. k? or have ur grl frends help u through it. good luck. hope this helps grl!!!
2007-03-13 18:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋