I love my best friend but she is so much prettier then me and she gets all the attention and the boys i like only talk to me cuz they like her so basically all the guys i like she likes and they like her what do i do it has happend so many times???!!! HELP?!!?!?!?
2007-03-13 10:51:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok...first of all...when did looks become part of a friendship? shouldn't you jut like your friends for who they are and you should be thank ful that they are there for you.But just let it go...someone will come along that will like YOU for who you are...and not based on looks.....Plus...if your just in Junior High..then you shouldn't really worry about it. Friends will be there for you while guys will just break your heart.
2007-03-13 11:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im kinda like that my best friend is prettier than me and she can get a any dude, but my personality is better than hers and sometimes personality goes way above looks! but believe in yourself! don't worship her cause thats gonna make her head bigger and she will be lookin down to you after awhile and that can mess up a friendship! just build you confidence... i don't know how you look but your pretty in SOMEBODYS eyes and the right one is gonna come for you soon! but don't worry about the outside focus on whats in the inside! hope i helped!
2007-03-13 18:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on personality.. I think my best friend is more attractive because she's thiner and i think she's prettier, but she things im prettier and have a nicer shape, even though im chubbier than her.. she used to get boys attention all the time,but she accuses me of getting guys attention.. we argue back and forth because theo nly guys who talk to me are friends.. but she says its the same withthe guys who talk to her!
2007-03-13 18:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by janna w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry too much. the more you focus on how much "better" she is than you, the more you'll envy her. and envying only leads to a horrible friendship, plus you'll always feel like you're in her shadow.
start focusing on yourself. start believing that you're just as awesome. focus on your good points, and tell yourself you can always work on your weak points. beauty's in the eye of the beholder, so not everyone may feel the same way about her beauty as you do. instead, build on your self confidence and show the world what YOU can do. when you set you're mind to it, anything's possible. don't whine about what you don't have now because there's always a way for you to achieve it.
in the mean time, though, work on your self confidence trust me you'll feel a lot better and ready to move on to better things. =]
2007-03-13 18:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by live.laugh.hope.love 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go find another friend who are less pretty than you.. the only way you will be notice is when you are a stand-out among your peers.
In short, stop competing with your friend!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 17:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
well obviosly you cant say look ugly becaus ei dont get attension...i say just deal with it you will get your turn someday!
2007-03-13 17:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear tinkerbell SUCK IT UP AND DEAL WITH IT!
NO SIKE LOL well make yourself over! its fun you should try it
2007-03-13 18:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋