alright so me adn my bf have been together for 7 months and for the past 2 he has been actin like he doesnt want to see me as much as he used to!! what am i supposed to do to get him interested again? Ive tried talkin to him about it and he said that he still loves me just as much if not more than he ever did! I dont know what to do and if it keeps goin like this Im afraid its gonna be bad i dont wanna say its gonna end but thats the only thing i know to do because I am not happy anymore!!! I love him soo much and I want to save our realtionship but I dont know how...will you please help me!!
2007-03-13 10:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he's just not that into you. Try making yourself as unavailable to him as he is. You can't "make" him be interested if you keep putting yourself under his nose. Stop chasing him for a few weeks and see if he pursues you.
2007-03-13 10:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him to do things that you wouldn't normally do. It doesn't even have to be something that he would like to do. Just something that he hasn't considered doing. If you two are indoors kinda people, then ask him to go to the lake, woods, river, whatever. Theme parks, bowling, movies, sports. Whatever you two normally do, don't do it. Well not everything. You know, well just throw surprises in there. Make sure there is something to make him wonder a little bit about you, as soon as a man gets curious he starts persuing answers. Give it a shot. In you situation it couldn't hurt.
2007-03-13 18:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happend to me. Let me tell you best thing to do is give him space. At first I kept doing everything I could to keep him next to me and spend time with him and it didn't work. I cried at nite cause I was scare to loose him. Finally I gave up and said "he'll come to me when he's ready" Dont waste your time on thinking how to keep him next to you. Find something to keep yourself busy join a dance class, go out with your friends, anything and soon you'll be too busy to worry about it and he'll come to you with the same question you had.
2007-03-13 17:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Pro123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen give both yourselves some space- don't push yourself on to him, remember boys get tired very fast. So make yourself more interesting and mysterious with your things- you'll see he will begin again to be interested. ;-)
2007-03-13 18:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with u i would wonder why he had time then and doesnt now im sorry but it seems to be he isnt that interested anymore and doesnt want to hurt ur feelings
2007-03-13 17:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as painfull as it may be, you may need to face the fact that he is ready to move on. Dont let him take your self confidence with him.
2007-03-13 17:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by bornagainbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat a popsicle in front of him slowly lol
2007-03-13 17:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by itstoughtobeaman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him happy to be with you..
What would make him happy ?
Are you good in bed ?
2007-03-13 18:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just need his space
2007-03-13 17:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋