I've just moved into an apartment, on my own, and it's the first time I've ever lived completely alone. Any advice?
I'm lucky that I have a great social circle, amazing friends, am involved in projects that keep me busy - but what do I do when the bordem sets in? Or will it?
Oh, but no boyfriend to keep me distracted....maybe that's what I need.
2007-03-13 10:42:14 · 24 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been living on my own now for 5 months. I've never lived alone before and sometimes it's strange, but on the whole it's brilliant! Just make sure you've got some hobbies and lots of friends, which it seems like you have, so you shouldn't get bored. I like coming back after a busy day's work and relaxing and doing what i want without anyone nagging me or hassling me, lol. You'll be fine!
2007-03-13 10:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left home to go into a flat when I was 21. I loved it. I know some are married with kids by that age, but I was the first one of my friends to 'move out'. I lived on my own (well, I had boyfriends stay over) but really I lived on my own for 8 years. I never got bored or lonely. I'm now married to a wonderful man, who is out from 3am till about 6pm and in bed at 8pm. I don't think I could handle a relationship where he was under my feet all the time.
2007-03-13 12:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived on my own for 6 years and love it. When you need time to yourself, it is so great to be able to do that instead of just trying to live around a roommate.
Staying busy helps, but there will be days when you may feel really alone - and as good as your friends are, there may be a time that they can't come to your "rescue." These are good growing times because if you can't be by yourself, I don't think that's good. Rent or watch a movie you like. Read a book. You'll get used to it.
2007-03-13 10:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by teel2624 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lived alone for several years, in fact throughout even my mid and late twenties, which is normally a very sociable time. I think you should have a good hobby that you can do alone...also definately keep your social circle going if you're that kind of person. I spend most of my time outside of work alone, and I am comfortable eating at restaurants alone and going to movies alone. I think a lot of it comes down to putting yourself in the right frame of mind. If you're home alone, bored, and think, "THIS SUCKS!"...then it probably will! On the other hand, if you tell yourself that alone time is good, and that you enjoy your solitude...then it can be very enjoyable. I think I read in a book somewhere it's all about turning loneliness into solitude. Good luck! :)
2007-03-13 10:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well once you get a bf you wont be living alone! so enjoy the time you have on your own for now. If you have interest in reading or studying or music you can play read or listen now without having someone else to distract you or get annoyed if you are ignoring them. Enjoy your freedom, but keep an eye out for the right guy to share your interests and worries with in the future
2007-03-13 10:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32 and have lived predominantly on my own for about 11years. theres been occasions where i have had girlfriends stay short term or had friends stay for a week or two but on the whole i've had the place to myself.
I have however had cats... excellent companions!!!
i wouldnt say i get bored or lonely. i find plent to be busy with and sometimes there really is nothing nicer than to kick back cosy at the fire-side and gaze out at the hills in the distance..
enjoy your new place..
2007-03-13 10:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live alone too, it's really not that bad once you get used to it. You need to make sure your friends understand that sometimes you might need to have someone around, if they are supportive they will be ready to be there for you. But most of the time it's great, you can have your own space, do what you like and not have to answer to anyone. 90% of the time I really like it.
2007-03-13 10:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy living on your own!!!! I sometimes wish that I had at some point. I am home all day long (I work from home) and my husband travels for 2 weeks at a time for work. It really isn't all that bad to be alone, I always find something to do.
Good Luck!
2007-03-13 10:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about that maybe you should take advantage of the opportunity to expierence your life in a differnt way than you may be used to. I think maybe you shouldlearn to enjoy the freedom you will expierence by living alone
good luck
2007-03-13 10:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be just fine, trust me. I was alone the last 2 years (first time for me too) I really got into it, able to do what I like, when I like & see my friends just whenever I pleased. The boyfriend thing is just around the next corner. Don't worry, just go with it, don't be scared. x x
2007-03-13 10:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by fi3ona 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋