my boyfriend closes the page he is looking at when i walk in the room. an also deletes all the history on the comp everytime he has been on it. if i mention it he says the cookies of pages u have visited block up the comp if u leave them. but i dont belive him could he be cheating?
2007-03-13 10:38:37 · 28 answers · asked by lizjess2000 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do not think he is cheating he is probably looking at pictures of centerfolds or something like that he is either embarrassed to tell you or he is afraid that you might be jealous and get mad and if it is not that follow your in stints check it out and if there is get out I do not know how old you are but always ask yourself the question is he the kind of man that could spend the rest of his life not being attracted to or having feelings for another women and then ask yourself the same question will you be able to go the rest of your life without being attracted to or having feelings for another man be honest to YOURSELF and you will find the answer if it is not what you are looking for remember sometimes one door closes to let another open
2007-03-13 11:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that he's looking at porn, but if your bf gf then why would he care, he is right that the cookies will slow down the computer, and you are right to be suspicious. I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but I would do a search through the computer to see if there are porn files, if you find some then you know he's most likely not cheating. Just use key words when you search, cumshots, ****, the names of celebrities, etc. Get creative. Ohh and if you ever get on right after him, open the media player to see what the last file played was. There's another quick way to find his porn stash. Start asking questions if you don't find any
2007-03-13 17:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at all the answers so far, my opinion probably won't be comforting, but here goes...
If he's looking at porn, why is he doing it when there is an obvious chance he will be caught in the act?
Whatever it is, he's making a point of hiding it from you.
We may all have secrets, but it seems this is the start of a slippery slope, wherein if you can live with this, you will be expected to live with other behaviors that you have unresolved questions on.
2007-03-13 18:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by navymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think he might becheating on you there. Do you have his password for his email address or can you get it ?
You might want to see who he has been talknig to and stuff.
If he is cheating on you , you should just leave him and find some who will not hide things on you. If you can't trust him then there is no reason you should be with him right ?
Or maybe he's a porn addict and is embarrased to have you find out about. Maybe he has a fetish thats not of the norm..or he is looking at gay porn.
2007-03-13 17:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take into consideration that some people like they're space.
take me, i can go just looking at clothes to shop, but the minute someone is behind me i close it.
why?
Because, i feel likes its not anyones buisness and because i want TRUST.
I dont know..
Then some people when they put a link and then the drop downs come up they are like "Ohhh, what cha looking at?!"...
But just ask up front.
Tell him to be honest..and take it cooley.
2007-03-13 17:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Holymoly123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably porn or dating on-line.You need to need to check that out and yes you are right to be suspicious because if he deletes everything in the history tab on the computer and when you ask questions,he blames it on the computer.
YES GIRL,YES.
2007-03-13 17:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Janelle Monae rocks u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could just be on sites that are gross and guys do that but there is a chance...when he gets on the comp. just sit next to him...you do have the right to be suspicious but dont be too forward about it...if you are sitting next to him and he tells you to go away then ask why...if he keeps on trying then just say if i cant see then i dont think you are that trustworthy
2007-03-13 17:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what he is looking at, he needs to be honest with you. If he can't do that, you're better off with someone else. If he hides stuff from you now, he always will. Confront him, and see what his reaction is. Tell him that honesty is one of the key ingredients for a good relationship.
2007-03-13 17:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you're right to be suspicious. He's most likely is hiding something from you. I'd ask him what he's doing and if he won't tell you, don't press too much, but try to figure out what he's hiding and why he's hiding it from you.
2007-03-13 17:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by XxsomeonexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating or he could be looking at porn and just doesn't want you to see. Either way, his behavior is shady and indicates he is hiding something from you.
2007-03-13 18:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋