What do I do if I got pregnant and told my friend and now she is trying to get pregnant just because I am???? Everyone in my family know I am pregnant my BF and his parents know I am pregnant and I just told my best friend and now she wants to get pregnant so she is having sex with different people all the time and I keep telling her not to do it what do I do???? Her parents don't know should I tell them??? My friend is 15 like me if that helps in anyway.
2007-03-13 10:33:47 · 6 answers · asked by Kally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think if your friend is putting herself at risk the way you say she is, then you should say something to someone. Prehaps you could ask a teacher for advice. If you tell her parents yourself you will probably lose her as a friend, cause she sounds really immature and stupid, and will not understand you are acting out of concern for her. Good luck with your pregnancy, tough break if you are that young.
2007-03-13 10:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by wally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am usually not the kind of person that says "tell the parents" but if she is sleeping around and trying to get pregnant......TELL THEM!! She is only 15 and obviously doesnt understand that a baby is a huge responsiblity. If you have talked to her and tried to explain to her why this is a horrible thing to do and she wont listen, you need to tell her parents. Because at 15 they are going to be the ones raising a baby!
2007-03-13 17:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I don't know you or your friend, but it sound like she is incredibly insecure and may be afraid that things are going to change completely between you two now you are pregnant. She's afraid she'll be left behind unless she goes through the same thing with you at the same time.
Sit her down and talk to her about being worried about her careless behavior (if could really come back to hurt her). Also, let her know that while your life may change with the baby, she'll still be your friend and still be a part of your life.
If she still doesn't change, please tell her parents to help her find some professional councelling help because she has come major co-dependency issues not to mention a hint of self destruction.
2007-03-13 17:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, i actually had a friend who got pregnant and then Her sister ended up getting pregnant like 2 months later.
Just try and talk her out of it, sleeping around is gonna cause her more trouble than a baby, more like STD's, HIV, infections, etc...
She should wait, if you're as young as she, she'll see all the hardwork and lost youth after u've had ur baby and the pain your gonna go thru with ur pregnancy
2007-03-13 18:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by SouthCackalacky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents you'll be doing her a favor
2007-03-13 17:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advise her to stop
2007-03-13 17:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋