my husband and I have been married almost 9 yrs now. I am 5 yrs older than him. I saw he was getting e-mail from the personal site, yes I have one to.. anyway the age he has listed is 21 to 40 and I am pushing 43 our sex life is great. Is he just browsing as I do or looking for the younger better girl??? He tells me he loves me everday he is no siant and I put up with a lot things..as in partying running around with his work friends
I know they do some illegal stuff but if I complian he starts saying I`m crazy etc. If I turn his supplier in he will be mad as hell but this activity seems worse when he is misbehaving with the guys... hanging on
2007-03-13 10:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why is he looking for woman n a certain age range If i caught my husband ding that I'd go through the ceiling and ask questions just like you nip it in the bud now before it goes any farther check it out have a long talk with him and find out what's really gong on GOOD LUCK
2007-03-13 10:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He already has another girlfriend much younger than you...it is the dope that he is having a relationship with, and will eventually choose it over you. The on-line dating thing is secondary.
All this could change, if he decides to get help. But HE has to want the help; not you wanting him to want help--that does not ever work. All you can do is make him want the help by not fixing the problems created by this drug that he is already letting interfere with your relationship. None of this has anything to do with your age at all.
2007-03-13 17:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd like to stay married to each other, I would suggest that you both delete your "personal sites." It's like you both have "feelers" out, as if this goes sour, I'll already have something lined up.
I don't think you have to turn your husband in for his activities, but I would definitely let him know that it bothers you and that you'd like for it to stop.
Then I recommend that you two go to couples therapy. There are some serious cracks that have started, and now they are starting to show.
2007-03-13 17:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having on line personal sites sounds like you're playing with fire.
There are doors that once opened can not be closed.
Sounds like you guys have some trouble and counseling would help.
2007-03-13 17:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with Dino here.
2007-03-13 17:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Gwynny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dino too...............
2007-03-13 17:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋