2007-03-13 10:04:18 · 10 answers · asked by rebekahmorgan2 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You need to talk it through with him find out his position and feelings and give him yours. You can't make anyone change their mind. If you try to force him to change his mind you could make the situation worse.
You could seek a marriage counselor to get professional help in this.
2007-03-13 10:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't change his mind that could cause issues. Rather than trying to change his mind talk to him about it and ask him why he doesn't want another one and tell him why you do. Think about what he says and the best you can do is try to ease his mind and make him more comfortable with the idea. Good luck!
2007-03-13 10:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with saying you should "sacrifice" the wants for the needs. If you can't afford a child, don't have one. If someone doesn't want a child, don't make them have one, or they'll end up resenting that child, and the child suffers in the end for your selfishness. If your in desperate need of being around a child, volunteer at a local crisis nursery or shelter.
2007-03-13 10:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by advocator_16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the very same problem, and I tried talking, reasoning, bargaining, crying and even begging all to no apparent avail. I finally came to the realisation that I could never change his mind. So I stopped asking him and started praying about it. And much to my delight he changed his mind, and we are now trying to conceive. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-14 05:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tonja K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his reasoning behind not wanting another child? It might be a simple thing that you guys can discuss, like your family's budget or time. Good luck I hope this helps.
2007-03-13 10:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by alaskagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously think about it before you try and change his mind. He could end up resenting you and the child.
2007-03-13 10:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him why then depending upon answer go from there if its money maybe you could pickup a part time evening or weekender to save up money but there has to be an answer to the why wothout that its harder to help you
2007-03-13 10:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by sexy b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be tihnking of money sit down go over a budget let him know how important it is for you and show him your willing to sacrifice the wants for the needs
2007-03-13 10:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him many times ONLY kids are selfish brats and dont know how to share and is that what he wants?? boohoo
i know one exception and i also know one who grew up to hve four kids of her own....theyre lonely too Think of the kid tell him....they need company....good luck..
2007-03-13 10:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT EVER U WANT BUT AN ABORTION HURTS
2007-03-13 10:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by hotone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋