there is a girl in my form that nobody lyke because weneva she always trys 2 b m8s with 1 of a set of best m8s the best m8 end up hating each other we have told her and it also ended up as i massive school fight. hu noes how we can get the message out to her before she breaks anymore m8s up. i no we are cruel by telling her but we are trying to be honest
2007-03-13
09:53:46
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hayley s
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excuse me you should learn to read text slang first before you acuse me of talking giberish
2007-03-13
10:00:45 ·
update #1
most of u are saying itz my own fault and that i shouldnt fight with her . the reaspn nobody lyks her is becaise wen two best m8s fall she bullies the other friend which even includes hitting them. i try to talk to her normally but she just started to yell. we have told the teachers and showed them what she is lyk but they just say there is nothing they can do
2007-03-13
10:08:26 ·
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why is everybody against me i am the one person who trys to talk to her and all i get is all of you slating me. she is a bully and she knows it herself. she has hit nearly all of my friends and all i want is for her to stop hurting people and actually being friends with them instead of hurting them when they are her friend
2007-03-13
10:27:28 ·
update #3
the reason i no all this is because i gave her a chance one but she hit my best friend 2 times in a day i can neva 4give her for that
2007-03-13
11:00:21 ·
update #4
the reason i no all this is because i gave her a chance one but she hit my best friend 2 times in a day i can neva 4give her for that
2007-03-13
11:00:22 ·
update #5
Text talk is not a recognised language so yes it is gibberish you are talking.
What you are doing is bullying this girl and assualting her from what I can make out. I dont understand why she would want to be friends with a bunch of b*tches like you anyway. If these pals that fell out before were proper (grown up) friends they wouldnt fall out with each other because she was friends with one.
Grow up and stop acting like a little thug! I really hope that you and your friends get done with bullying this girl.
You do know in twenty years time this girl will have probably made something of herself and you will sitting in a scabby home with a fat alky husband and 8 ugly kids. And all because you cant spell worth a sh*t and you are a nasty little bully
2007-03-16 22:45:19
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answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6
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She's obviously a very sad lonely girl who is desperate for any form of friendship she can get.
She doesn't hold a gun to these girls heads and force them to be friends with her and if they fall out with each other then their very fickle young ladies.
Put yourself in her shoes, your all friends and she on the outside looking in and all she wants to be is be included within the circle, hate is also a very strong word, how would you and your pals feel if you knew somebody hated you?
Is this the only reason that she is disliked? because if it is then your arguments very thin on the ground, i know not everybody will like everyone they meet in their life time but school days can be hard enough with out the whole of your class hating your guts.
Why dont you all try getting to know her properly and if you still all feel the same about her then the only thing you can do is avoid her, but dont make it so blatantly obvious how you all feel as this will lead to more play ground punch ups and make her feel even worse.
Everyone deserves a second chance so be the bigger person and hold out the hand of friendship, she may actually be a very nice person underneath!
2007-03-13 17:33:54
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answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6
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I think everyone forgets what its like to be a teenager, all those emotions and angsts.
Sounds like this girl is lashing out partly due to a reputation about her that has grown so big, shes probably as confused as you are. Im not going to tell you what to do, just offer this suggestion. Negativity breeds negativity, if everyone says your a waster so many times, trust me you end up believing it, and then acting it. Could be she doesnt know how to be a good, maybe shes been treated like this all the time so she just goes with what she thinks everyone expects.
People do change, if you take of the pressure of telling her how to behave maybe she will stop behaving in a negative way. Could be all the telling her, is making her continue. ?
2007-03-13 18:40:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I suggest you stop being nasty to her, she probably only wants to be included. This girl can't MAKE you fall out with your mates, only you can let her do that, don't fall out with your mates, simple, and I think you and your school friends should put yourselves in her position, I bet none of you would want to be there, would you? Try to all get on together, it's a sign you're growing up. AND, I can read text slang, my daughters and niece do it, I'm quite cool, you know, lol!
2007-03-13 17:02:13
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answered by Jane H 4
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If she's trying to make friends with you she needs help because from what ive read you are just a selfish b!@*h you dont deserve friends so get a life and stop being so nasty you dont know what problems she may have.And by the sound of it she would be better off without you
2007-03-13 17:16:18
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answered by Anonymous
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if she really is hittin people you should let the police know, she is abusing people and hurting them, she should and could be arrested and taken to court, honest, you really should report this, the police will warn her off, she sounds like a real bully biatch. avoid going any where she is, and tell the teachers at school they must do something, while you aare at school it is there responsibilty to protect you
2007-03-17 05:20:40
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answered by Anonymous
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honesty is one thing. cruelty is another. there is no need to be mean about it. I doubt she does those things on purpose. it's too bad you feel that way, but if you decide to tell her you don't want to hang out, just say it kindly, and do it soon, so she can move on and find better friends anyhow
2007-03-13 17:05:04
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answered by Anonymous
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If you cant forgive her for hitting your friend then why are you bothering asking the question. Just tell her to do one if you dont like her.
2007-03-15 15:51:46
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answered by just me 1
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kids are kids they allways do these things its a phase they go through when u reflect on it it could be you they do it too next time you know what i would go to school to learn and let them get on with it
2007-03-14 08:25:26
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answered by dj_globe35 1
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Perhaps you should learn to type properly first
2007-03-13 16:58:14
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answered by Angel 6
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