Why is it that it's always the white guys that hurt me? Not black, not any other races but the white guys? Coincidence? And I'm white.
2007-03-13 09:38:37 · 31 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hurt as in sexually, physically and emotionally?
2007-03-13 09:39:34 · update #1
Because white men are jealous because their dingalings aren't as big as a black man so therefore they're not living UP to their potential! LMAO! More white men are taking meds to RISE to the occasion then then women getting liposuction! Do you see all of the commercial about White men not being able to get it up? Never once was there a black man in one of those commercial! Oh yes, Black men are the Mandingo's of the planet! And that's about the bottom line on that!
2007-03-13 09:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Thats not really a problem of race or sexuality even.
Its more problem of your conception.
Like:
If you get hurt you ask: Has it been by a white guy, and if the answer is yes - you remeber it, if its "no" you forget about it.
To be sure you would have to be dating the exact number of guys of other races in exact the same situation.
If you come up with the same results you might be on to something.
2007-03-13 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Invader Zim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the white people think they are the supeur race there the ones that came up with all the racist slang words there are today. I am white as well but i have expereinced alot of rasism from differnt cultures but white people are the ones that started all the racism in the world and what ever white person disagrees does not there cultures history.
2007-03-13 16:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm. this doesn't make much sense to me.
If you have dated enough men of different races to see a pattern... then obviously NONE of those relationships worked out long-term, regardless of the man's race. Does this mean you were the one causing the 'hurting' when the man was not white? Or maybe you're expecting more from white men than from others, so they can't help but fall short of your expectations.
2007-03-13 16:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by sueflower 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How is this racist unless its racism within your own race? Every 'man' no matter what color his skin is, is going to be right for you. Are you leaving yourself open to be hurt. Do they know that they've hurt you, or are you carrying that hurt around with you? Answer those questions & ask yourself some other ones & I guarantee, you'll come up with a solution to your problem. Chances are the root of your problem, isn't a man at all.....
2007-03-13 17:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Color or race truly has nothing to do with it. It is the type of man you are dating not the race!!!! I once had a problem knowing the difference between good love and bad love. If you have to force it out of them it is not love. They should always naturally want to do good things to you and for you period. Find yourself a good counselor or talk with someone. I read a book by Dr. Phil don't remember the title but it helped me.
Good Luck to you.
2007-03-13 17:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A key to having a successful relationship is first being in love with yourself. When you know what YOU are all about, you start to sort through those who can't reflect the way you treat yourself. No one has a perfect relationship, but the more you are in love and understand yourself, the more you will know when someone else can genuinely do the same for you.
Fall in love with your saviour, lead a life based on what your belief says you should do and everything else will fall into place.
Best wishes in your future relationships...
2007-03-13 16:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! I don't think it has anything to do with race.
My white friends have good and bad boyfriends. I am black and my black friends have good and bad boyfriends.
It is the law of attraction all over again. If you think the white guys will hurt you they will. You will subconsciously expect it.
If you meet a nice guy, no matter his race, be nice too. But don't stereotype white guys. I see white guys who are nice to their girlfriends and black ones who aren't.
There are good people and bad people.
2007-03-13 16:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by honeysistagirl 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Its not the color/ race or religion. It just so happens that your picking the wrong men. They just all happen to be white! Coincidence Yes.
2007-03-13 16:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It would help you to not "sound racist" if you didn't word you question in a racist manner. Whenever you put all people, men, women, or both into a comparison based on race, you make a racist statement.
2007-03-13 16:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋