Alright my hubby does work in bars, he travels around to different bars and collects the money and fixes the equipment. Theres this one route he runs once or twice a month, and 99% of the time that he runs this route, hes late and has been drinking. This has been going on for 5 years now. I have two small step sons and two sons of my own and also 25 weeks with his son. Im getting so tired of being a door mat. I dont get the option to just stop and have a beer whenever i feel like it. What do i do. Ive expressed this so many times to him but its like he doesnt care how it makes me feel. I stay at home and raise kids, thats my life. Im here all day everyday and every single night. Unless of course him and i go out together, which NEVER happens. How would you handle this situation? Like today hes had "a few beers" he usually calls everymorning, but today he didnt call at all. When i finally got ahold of him, he simply said he was out of town. That was all he said until i asked. Help me
2007-03-13 09:17:11 · 3 answers · asked by jess_n_flip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh yea and to this day, he still brings up the fact that i didnt come home until 4am on my 21st birthday, i was out with two of my sisters and did nothing wrong, but he doesnt get it. Thats the only time ive ever been out by myself. guess i blew that one myself.
2007-03-13 09:18:50 · update #1
You are obviously bowing down to him! Don't. He is just another man. He should be there for you and for all these young kids. You should leave his a**. Just because you are a woman doesn't mean you have to stay home and raise kids. Cuz, what are you going to do when your kids are all grown up and you are going to look back and realized all you ever did was take is BS and stay home. Have a life... be a woman! And stand up for yourself. I'm sorry haha. Sound like a ranting woman. I just saw the same with my mom. And after 20 yrs, she finally said to hell with him and started living life.... Good luck and give yourself a voice! One more thing, it doesn't take getting wasted to be an alcoholic. ..
2007-03-13 09:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems hes trying to get back at you for that ONE night... maybe he thinks u done something wrong that night and maybe he is doing something wrong to get back at ya.... the solution should be....TELL HIM.. its not all about YOU.... its about US...and ur family.... if he doesnt change... just say u dont know how long u will be there.... there is so much u can take and u gave him 5 yrs.... for ur ONE night.... demand the respect you deserve... good luck
2007-03-13 09:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new husband
2007-03-13 09:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋