Why is he soft? My husband has a prob with porn I think He can't seem to?

Question

perform unless he has a magazine or some visual aid like a movie when we are making love . He says its not me but needs stimulation . What should I do ?

Answer 1

then you should be the one to stimulate him instead of those movies/magazines ! try dressing yourself a little more sexy, change the bedroom's light to something much romantic, whisper to him before love making that how you treasure those old memory where he is so caring, manly etc n all those past moments which were very sweet ! tell him how you still remember the first few times you two have sex n you simply loved those moments !

together, watch some love/romantic movies before hand instead of porn but never throw away his collection of porn/magazine because that would make him mad at you ! or you yourself may glance through it to learn something new to seduce your husband, who know ?

if all efforts failed, then you both need to seek professional treatment !

All the best !