ill admit that im not the most mature person in the world and at lunch i guess i could be rather loud but i never really thought of it..when my friend and i went to the mall the other day my friend told me that the other girl we go to lunch with told her "how could you go to lunch with jill? shes so loud and embarassing?" should i ask her about this?? how should i handle it?? =\ thanks..
2007-03-13 08:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is just one persons thoughts on you. Who cares? Your other friend likes you just the way you are. Maybe if a lot of people feel this way about you you could bring it down a nutch but don't change who you are and it is not worth confronting her about it. Let it go and be yourself.
2007-03-13 08:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know yourself better than anyone. Ladies are not to be loud. Sometimes, when people tell us things let's take it as a positive initially it sounds bad but, please don't say anything about it be mature and go change be polite, smile eat out again with them, but remember don't let the cat out of the bag i know you can do it.
2007-03-13 09:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by ora s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest about your feelings and tell her what you know. If you are hurt from her comments then she needs to understand how you feel, that's the best way to handle it.
2007-03-13 08:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You used the incorrect term, 'acquaintances' would not notice to those human beings because of the fact they do no longer in good condition the define of a pal. Your courting with them is poisonous, decrease them off now and embody your self with people who convey beneficial power into your existence rather than unfavourable power. I had to diminish off particularly quite some those so referred to as 'acquaintances' from my existence, a number of which I even grew up with because of the fact we replaced lots and that they had the habit of gossiping approximately me and that i did no longer relish it in any respect. I at some point actually purely decrease them from my existence by making use of unfriending them on facebook and blockading them so that they could no longer request a friendship anymore. That grew to become into the 1st step. I immediately felt soo lots extra effective after dealing with my acquaintances record and understanding that something of the folk on the record further beneficial power into my existence and that i now no longer had to have touch with people who did no longer. i've got been a lots happier individual on condition that (lots extra emotionally healthful as properly) Granted, it helped that i did no longer stay interior an identical united states of america as my ex-acquaintances so i did no longer might desire to stumble upon them and that i'm specific i will in no way run into them back in my existence and that makes me even happier. yet even (as i assume is your case) you do stay interior an identical united states of america as them you will purely decrease them off, they do no longer deserve a proof in the event that they have been treating you like crap at the same time as understanding it hurts your thoughts. Do it for your self, do no longer hardship approximately their thoughts (they do no longer hardship approximately yours) you will make new acquaintances. anybody is often afraid of dropping acquaintances cuz they assume its no longer ordinary to make new ones very like a individual in a courting is oftentimes afraid to interrupt up even while they're unhappy because of the fact they think of 'what if i do no longer locate somebody else?' yet have faith me you will, purely be your self and you will attraction to well suited people who you will set up new friendships with. a number of my new friendships have began from something as low as a smiling at a stranger (my age team, on campus) and then more desirable from there. desire this enables :)
2016-10-18 07:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by juart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it. If I'm not talked about then I'm nothing once people stoptalking about me than I'm not doing somthing right.
2007-03-13 09:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your friend ratting out your other friend. Seems all so immature.
2007-03-13 08:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and she was like "whatever" and i was like "whatever" and then she said ok well whatever ya know?.....
is this a post or a t-mobile commercial.
2007-03-13 08:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋