I was at a party, and my boyfriend went to the potty. He was taking a long time so i went to see if he was oaky. I was on the otehr side of the room so he walked out before i went to see if hes ok. Then i saw a girl go up to him and kiss him. He said he had no idea who the girl was, and i didnt know who it was. I later found out it was my cousin's cousin's friend. Should i be mad at him? I dont think that he would really cheat on me, hes not that kinda person.
2007-03-13 08:47:29 · 18 answers · asked by jackiebrawdy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He pushed her back, and just gave her a nasty stare...if that means anything.
2007-03-13 08:56:33 · update #1
Well pushing her back and the nasty stare was good. It means he didn't want her to do that. Relationships have a certain amount of trust. If you don't think he would cheat on you then take it for what it was, an act by another he had nothing to do with so why be mad at him, she's the one you should be mad at.
2007-03-13 09:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by REBELLYNN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a kiss of someone you don't know is a bit weird. But an event is not the same thing as a pattern. Pay attention, if you see a pattern developing then you may need to make some decisions.
2007-03-13 15:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh The life of a drunken party I kind of miss those days . Let it go it was just a kiss but keep an eye on him and grab him by the ear the next time your at a party and hes hanging around woman.
2007-03-13 15:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he enjoy the kiss? Did he kiss her back or push her away? Did he look mad? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. You can't control the other girl.
2007-03-13 15:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, so you say he wouldn't cheat??? Get real. He took forever in the bathroom, and just so happens gets a kiss from another woman just as you walk in the room???? Sounds like a cheater to me. I would leave him. Life is too short.
2007-03-13 15:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with your cousin first and find out if he knows the girl, if he does then put all of his stuff in a box to the left
2007-03-13 15:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he kiss her back or did this girl just walk up and kiss him? If he kissed her back shame on him and I would have to seriously consider what my options are and my feelings but if she just walked up and kissed him then I would give him the benefit of the doubt and start paying more attention.
2007-03-13 15:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u saw. A girl kissed him. U only should be mad if he embraced her back. I'll beat that gurl down if i was u.
2007-03-13 15:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by JLC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well set down the ground rules at this juncture. Tell him you don't intend to deal with unfaithfulness or kissing other women or lying. Do it now.
2007-03-13 15:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy - ask your cousin to find out why she kissed him. Maybe he really didn't know her and therefore it would be silly to be mad at him.
2007-03-13 15:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋