Find an older man attractive. I work with a man that is probably 20 years older than me. I would not act on these feelings because he and I are both married. But I think he is very attractive, not only his looks, his attitude makes him attractive as well. Does anyone think this is really weird?
2007-03-13 08:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No my father has been married to my mother for 28 years. I have always had a good relationship with my dad
2007-03-13 08:21:24 · update #1
No no its not weird! if i am ever single again i will definitely want an older man. i understand exactly what you are describing. attitude, looks, experience... older men are the whole package.
2007-03-13 09:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with finding another man attractive. I think you'd be abnormal if you thought your husband was the only attractive man in the world.
Most people appreciate nice things. That might include art, music and yes, even the way people look and behave. You're smart enough not to act on this attraction so don't worry about it. It's not weird.
2007-03-13 15:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your father leave when you were a young child? That happened to a friend of mine, and in high school she was always lusting after men my father's age. 20 years isn't bad when you're in your 40s, but when he's double your age I think it's weird! (Sorry, that's just my opinion, since I don't share your attraction to older men!) :)
2007-03-13 15:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 17 I dated a man who was 39 and it was great. He had the experience and the personality which made him a great guy to be around plus he opened me up in so many ways sexually.
2007-03-13 15:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Younger women and older men are usually a natural match..
Works very well...
2007-03-13 16:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would that be weird? We pick friends (and more) on traits that we find attractive.
2007-03-13 15:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by paulandrhonda1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole, it is natural. Women want to find someone to emulate their fathers. This man has traits that you desire.
2007-03-13 15:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Just as long as neither one of you act upon your thoughts. Keep it your own personal fantasy. ;)
2007-03-13 15:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothing wrong with that. just dont ever act on it or let him know....
2007-03-13 15:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Orleanslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋