have sex with someone else if you told them you were o.k. with it? Do you think this is a way that you can find out if they truly love you?
2007-03-13 08:10:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if I could watch ..I think that would be hot. I know he loves me. No question about that. Sex and love are two different things.
2007-03-13 08:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't a way to find out if she truly loves you, it is a way to find out how adventurous she is! Try it. There are a lot of mental adjustments to be made once you guys get going with this type of thing, but it has its own rewards. I think you will find it a tremendous turn on. And it will really work if she gets turned on by your having sex with someone else. You will know it works when she tells you she wants to watch, or she wants you to watch her. It is VERY sexy, and will open a whole new world for you. Or it will wreck your relationship. Ask her..... As simple as that. Just ask her.
2007-03-13 15:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is playing games and not a good way at all to find out if they truly love you.
You should know it without a doubt if they are truly in love with you.
And no, I don't think my spouse would do that because my spouse IS truly in love with me.
be cool...
2007-03-13 15:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse doesn't care about what I say I feel is cheating, so I don't think it would matter to him. I don't think he'd have actual physical intercourse with another woman, but he does other things that I consider cheating, and (since he doesn't consider it being unfaithful) he isn't bothered about it. I'm pretty sure that he loves me, but I don't think that this is any way to find out. People lie, and people cheat. My question to you is why would you want to ask your spouse to have sex with someone else?
2007-03-13 15:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its a test no one can win, unless you are setting your spouse up for divorce.No I don't think my spouse would, but hey who knows right? Temptation is a wonderful drug....that usually leads to vry very bad things. If you are married to your spouse, why do you have to question whether they love you? You either do or dont, most usually the dont category is long gone.
2007-03-13 15:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up..... why would you want to do that. You should never trap someone like that, plus if YOU loved your spouse you would never need to do that. Trying to find out if your spouse really loves you..... well if they ARE your spouse by now you should know.
2007-03-13 15:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by vamps&flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur spouse really loved you then they wouldnt have sex with someone else even if you allowed them to and if it's a test, then they might think that you are testing them because that's not normal for someone to say you can have sex with someone else.
2007-03-13 15:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is absolutely not a way to find out if they truly love you. That is foolish.
2007-03-13 15:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never betray, lie, trap, play head games with my husband like that. Hell, I may not like the answer he gives and then a whole new can of worms would be opened! Who needs that drama?
2007-03-13 15:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's manipulative and very insecure of you to try to test someone this way.
My hubby would not do it, he'd never risk our marriage. We've discussed it many times.
I also think he knows me too well to think that I could be ok with him having sex with antoher person, so he'd have to know its a test.
2007-03-13 15:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Amy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋