Ok i have missed my period for 2 months and since i have an irregular period i thought it was just normal. But then i was browsing Y! answers i looked up missed periods and i found out that if u miss for 2 months you can be preggy.
But i also learned that you can miss it due to stress and change of diet.
And i have been havng unprotected sex with my boyfriend (we have no stds) We didnt always have it unprotected sex...we just started doing without a condom since we have been in such a long term relationship.
But then i started to feel that i was preggy so i bought a birth control kit but i didnt read the directons right and learned that the pregancy test is more accurate 1 day b4 your period (which i missed for 2 months) So the birth control test came out negative which could still be postive because the test was un accurate, so long story short to make my bf feel guilty for cheating on me i told him i was pregnant and lied and told him i had the doctor check me out and he said tha
2007-03-13 07:50:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
and said that i was preggy and i just told him i had an abortion this past sat.day. but yesterday i learned that i could be so i dont know wat 2 do....im under 16 and older than 14...sooo mom is a problem
2007-03-13 07:52:47 · update #1
i meant preggy test not birth control kit
2007-03-13 08:16:16 · update #2
Being pregnant and having an abortion is NOT something that you lie about. This is a very serious matter and if you feel you are old enough to have unprotected sex then you should have thought about this before hand.
Take another test, if you have missed 2 periods then there is a very good chance you may be pregnant. If you are then you have to explain to the father that you lied about having an abortion and deal with those consequences yourself. You will also just have to bite the bullet and tell your mom.
If by some chance your aren't pregnant STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX if you are not ready for children, which you obviously aren't
2007-03-13 07:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you missed your period and took a PREGNANCY TEST -- not a birth control kit -- two months after you missed your period and it came back negative, then you were not pregnant. The hormone detected by a pregnancy test only gets stronger as you move farther along into your pregnancy. Are you sure you didn't use an ovulation kit? I'd say take another test.
Other than that, I really hope you aren't pregnant. You're obviously not mature enough to handle being pregnant, being a mother or having sex for that matter. Don't you know that many STDs don't have any symptoms ... Don't you know if your bf was cheating on you, he's carrying around whatever nasties all those other girls were carrying around? Have more respect for yourself and stop having sex until you are mature enough to handle it and the possible consequences.
2007-03-13 07:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a mess.
Home pregnancy tests are accurate any time AFTER you miss your period, so if your period is two months late and you took a test, the results should be accurate. But you said you took a "birth control kit" not a home pregnancy test. I am not sure what you mean, but maybe you bought an ovulation test kit, which is the wrong type of test for detecting pregnancy.
Go out and buy another test called a HOME PREGNANCY TEST. First Response Early Result is the best test, but any one will do if you are two months late. Read the box carefully to make sure you are buying a test for pregnancy. Read the instructions twice before you take the test to make sure you are doing it right.
Please go to Planned Parenthood and get some counseling and a professional test. Here is a link for how to reach them:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Needless to say, you are way too young for all of this, and I sure hope you are not pregnant.
2007-03-13 08:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an irregular period, there's a really good chance that you're not pregnant but buy a pregnancy test, read the directions and follow them. I've never heard of a test that's more accurate before you're period. they test for the HcG hormone and that gets stronger as you progress in the pregnancy. If it came back negative there's a good chance that you're not pregnant but test again and do it right. once you get this all straightened out you need to use protection when you have sex. let this be a lesson to you. you have a lot of growing up to do by the sounds of it. quit being careless and haphazard about condom use and be responsible. don't bring another unwanted child into this world because of carelessness and immaturity.
2007-03-13 07:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by april b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think I may be the genius of the day.. older than 14 and younger than 16.. so you're 15? Why didn't you just say that?
First, condoms aren't just for the prevention of STDs... duh, right?
Secondly, I think you mean you bought a pregnancy test. Birth CONTROL would be before you're pregnant.
If you are really 2 months late like you say and ARE indeed pregnant, then the test would have come back positive. You played the games of an adult and if you think you're pregnant, you need to ACT LIKE ONE and fess up to mom and dad.
I was pregnant w/my first child at 15 and had him ALONE at 16. You play the adult game, you pay the adult price! I truly hope you're not pregnant and I truly hope you won't have sex again until you're ready for a baby- financially, maritally, and mentally!
Also, abortions ARE 100%.. you wanna know the truth? On a formed baby, they actually count all the pieces- make sure they have two arms, a head, torso, and two legs out. DON'T LIE AGAIN! If you are pregnant, fess up and tell him that you lied!!
2007-03-13 08:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm gonna comment on all that posted (I realize some is missing). You don't use a condom because y'all don't have any stds? Yet you say he cheated on you. Uh, ok. Still so certain he doesn't have any stds?
Also, this birth control kit you speak of...what the heck? Do you mean a pregnancy test? Its best if used AFTER a missed period. You may need to see a doctor. Oh, and use a condom. Best of luck.
2007-03-13 07:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is a long term relationship to you? 3 months? Why don't you focus on school? Don't you realize that your not an adult? Why are you having sex at such a young age in the first place? Getting pregnant is no joke. What is wrong with you? Why would you bring a baby in this world when you are so immature?
2007-03-13 12:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ayesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A pregnancy test is accurate anytime after your missed period. If it was negative and your period is 2 months late, you're not pregnant. Go to the doctor for real. So you can stop worrying, stop lying, and start using birth control.
2007-03-13 08:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so have you taken a test again??? Also I am no hypocrite because I was young ( still am at 21 ...BUT married for 2 yrs.) but I did it w/out a condom with a former b/f because I thought I was sooo in love and thank god I got Nothing from him but the thing was we did not last!! Do not have unprotected sex till you are married!!!! Obviously you were not that serious b/c he cheated ( or he was not...don't trust them boys!!!!) Ok you need to find out for sure if you are or not ( take a test or go planned parent hood and get a blood test) if you are preg. tell him you lied about the abortion because you could not take that he cheated ( just pretend that you knew about you being preg. before now) and take responsibility for yawls actions( that means telling mom and dad!!)!!!If you are not then why tell him just let him believe that you did and go on with your life with out him!!! Just do not do it again unprotected!!!
Ps. the stupid girl about calling you stupid and she is doing the same thing at 17 not much better( she sure is a bright one ... like I said wait to do it till you are married).!!!
2007-03-13 08:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a birth control test. You bought a pregnancy test. If you've already skipped your period for two months, then the preg. test should show up accurately. Your period probably hasn't started because you're paranoid. Take another preg. test and when it turns up negative, keep your legs closed, stop lying and your period should start again.
2007-03-13 07:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋