I dont understand why so much self-hate is there inside me.Please make me love to this life.This lifa has no cost for me.Its valueless.
2007-03-13 07:22:28 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Grab a pen and paper - begin by setting goals. All kinds of goals. From career, to what you plan to do within the following week. Life never had any meaning when there was nothing to be achieved. Also, surround yourself with beauty, of every kind. There is inspiration in everything, you just need to know where to look.
2007-03-13 09:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your position very much. But never develop
hatred in your thinking.
LIfe (NATURE) gives every thing to all equally. It only depends how we utilise this life.
Sometimes you may feel that you are deprived of many trhings in life.
Compare your selves with others who are more deprived than us.The almighty (GOD) has given you education to understand the great universe. Just think that you had been given this life as a human being with a purpose. Only thing is, you should try to know what is that pupose. Read some good books. Hear soft music. Wonder for the sunrise and moon light. Enjoy Sunshine and a rain shower.Be positive. Everything looks good if you try to be calm and composed.
Never give a chance for depression to over come you.Play with small children. Go to zoo and observe the animals and fish and birds. Life is full of surprises and wonderful things.
Welcome every thing. Enjoy every moment. Be happy that you got an opportunity to help the needy. Time will cure all problems.
Pray GOD that you should be blessed with good things and be able to help others.Be brave and look for a silverline in your cloudy life.
May GOD help you in all your efforts.
2007-03-13 07:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by arpita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it! It's that easy. Instead of looking at the box have empty, just don't look at the glass. Think of what is most important in your life right and start with that. Know that somewhere, one person will always love you and think of that love. It's a hard process, to go through. It was very hard for me to turn my life around and making something from the nothing that I beleived that I have. The thing that was most important to me was my career, so I worked harder and eventually I got a raise. That lifted my spirits and a few months later I met the man of my dreams. We've been together for three and half years, and everyday just gets better.
Sometimes, I still have thoughts about being worthless, and having no use to live, but I think about those two good things in my life and that makes everything better.
If you want to see a doctor about, go ahead. all their going to do is make you pay for a drug that they say makes it go away. To me it's just a waste of time. Depression to me, is something that is just in your head.
2007-03-13 08:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by lilrahl3465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just like to join the 5th answer. You can be a bit more elaborative. No meaning in babbling something to sooth you. I wish you to explain your situation like
your age, married?, children? problem from family? employed? problem in workplace? lover cheated? mom ? Pa?
There are many who wants to pat you and befriend you dear. You be strong in thoughts, do what you feel correct. Pray for a while. Visit yor temple, mosque or church where you get peace, listen to the scholars talks. Don't waste your energy. If you feel and think 'oh I am good for nothing nobody cares me and loves me so why should I live' the like, nobody bothers. If something worse happens you also none bothers. People say he was doing nothing so better......... But take a bath in the early morning, concentrate on some eternal thoughts, freshen your mind with some songs, then joyously go and enjoy your work, if studies ok do it.
Wish you the best
2007-03-13 07:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Padma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u were brought up with a stick in the hand of ur parents. They did not understand ur psychological needs. If u hate urself, u will get hatred from the world. Learn to love urself by giving auto-suggestions to urself before going to bed - say - God Loves Me and I am the most loving creation of God.- say it five times and drink a glass of water (half the glass) Cover the left over water in glass with a thin cloth or tea coaster. In the morning drink the coverd water and repeat the auto-suggestion five times again. U will see things change for u, u will find change in attitude of ur associates and family members. During the day if some things goest against u just utter GOD LOVES ME AND GUIDES ME IN EVERY WAY OF LIFE. U will definitely start loving urself and enjoy life to the full.
2007-03-13 20:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by sudershan Guddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with you ,as I understand, is, that you are not trying to know well about you. Look at the mirror before you. You are a perfect individual in all respects. Am I right? God has given you a perfect body and a mind.He has also given you a scientific frame of mind to analyse things. Look around and see for yourself the number of people with physical disabilities. They are still living. You don't love your life because you don't love yourself and the people around you. You hate yourself because you hate people around you. Try to love all that is around you to overcome your negative thoughts.Think that the purpose of your living is not only for yourself but for others too. Don't start seeing things in a negative way. Read some good books.Go out of your house and get some fresh air.All these are going to transform you very very shortly.
2007-03-16 18:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Lies of Self-Love and Self-Esteem
When Conceit and Selfishness Are Virtues
We live in the perilous times of the last days, when men would love themselves A learning explosion without any truth would occur to seduce and deceive Christians (II Tim 3:6-7). And it would popularize the theory and practice of self-love, self-esteem, and the other obsessions of self promoted by modern psychiatrists and psychologists. These gurus have wandered far from human experience, reality, truth, and wisdom in creating a modern nightmare for parents and others dealing with the most conceited, dysfunctional, narcissistic, selfish, and rebellious generation in the history of the world
While Benjamin Spock recanted before dying of some of his role in this failed experiment with America's children, a few others are also stepping forward to admit that they did not know what they were talking about in promoting this myth. It is too bad they had not read the Bible, for Bible Christians have known for 2000 years that self-love was a sin and horrible blight on mankind.
Conclusion: 1. We have easily and totally exploded the heresy and myth of self-love and self-esteem commonly taught today. 2. We have soberly given ourselves a great project to learn to love and think about others more than ourselves.
Instead of loving yourself, love others you will see the joy in yourself
2007-03-13 12:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Suresh Joseph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling
exactly
and you cant say anything about
you have to keep it all inside
its like no one admits it
so you feel more alone
i dont have the answers
i dont think anyone really does
cause for one thing were all different
but everyone suffers one way or another
i dont feel that way right now
life is going good for me now
but i dont know whats gonna happen next
i just went through a bad divorce
and i just feel like i never have my sh!t together
but i can still enjoy good times
like yesterday i was invited to a ranch
and we spent the night and played with the kids
and today we walked down a trail and
it starting raining hard
and we all got wet
life is hard sometimes
and sometimes it seems the world
is fake and plastic
sometimes i think that there must be something
fundamentaly wrong with the world
like a conspiracy or something
but then maybe its just me
or maybe me and the world are really the same thing
anyways i do know how you feel
2007-03-13 07:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it true. I don't believe. You are 200% possessing all opposite qualities narrated in the question. However, Respect your parents, elders. Have a darshan of Lord Rama at Bhadrachalam, Matha Sitha at Parnasala, have a bath in the Godavari River. Also visit Tirupathi, Kanchi, Kasi, Shirdi as per you schedule. Love the labour and every body. God bless you.
2007-03-15 03:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Srirambhaktha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act responsibly, explore and learn about life and the world and become actively involved. You should do what is right, be considerate to other people and then you will find that other people will like you and you will like other people and that will be the proper basis for self-respect.
If you feel that your life is valueless it is only because you have a reservoir of good will inside, but by being on your own you are using it up and not repleting it through sharing with others, and therefore the reservoir is becoming more dry as you as you draw on it more and more, hoping to find something to please you, as Shakespeare said, "Thy self they foe, to thy sweet self too cruel."
See the world, think about it and be part of it and you will see that it is also part of your self and that you yourself have value because you are part of the world and it is part of you.
2007-03-14 12:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Immanuel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋