Do you go looking for friends or do they just happen?
2007-03-13 07:16:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A little of both I'd say. Usually friends just happen but do involve initiative. When I come across someone interesting I make an effort to get to know more about them.
But I have also purposefully joined groups to make friends. I went to a support group for several years because I needed some women friends that I could trust and be open with. One of my dearest friends is a fiery redhead I met there. :-) I participate in small groups at my church to build stronger friendships, too.
2007-03-13 12:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a knitting pattern and they come in a wide variety of colours! Some are off the wall, some are bright and colourful, but they all take a long time to make. They are durable and warm. They can be funny, each one is different from the next. There are some that are old standards and fit like a glove, there are others who are new and yet to be proven, but they look good and they blend well. Some just lie around gathering dust while some are more suited to be on the go. I just like them all and am glad when I can make new ones.
2007-03-13 13:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by The Y!ABut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to events that reflect your interests whether it's a sport or a church thing or a club at school or a hobby or just a hang out where other people your age are at, like a bookstore or restaurant, and enjoy yourself and people will want to be your friend. Friendship takes awhile, people need a chance to just get a feel for who you are and what you are like and eventually others will warm up to you and you to them. You have to make yourself available while you're having some fun. On one hand you have to let things happen but on the other you have to be a little proactive about it. It's challenging to make new friends but ultimately it's a fun ride.
2007-03-13 07:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put yourself out in life to make friends, they aren't going to come along and just smack you and say "I'm your friend now". Go join a bowling league, a reading club (at the local library or book store), an athletic club (volleyball is really fun). Volunteer at the local animal shelter or hospital. Get out and involve yourself in life and with people. You will make new acquaintances and some of them will become friends. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-13 07:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself-and be happy within yourself before you ask how to make friends. People love being around others who carry a sense of happiness..it spreads good things believe me
2007-03-13 07:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by MangO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THe friendship is important thing.But I think that every person is choosing his friends by the character.Friendship is build of honer,love,trust.At this way I'm making my friends.And everyone who is friend will have friends.
2007-03-13 07:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Grom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u meet someone u say hello an it just start from there i dont loke 4 friends it just happens
2007-03-13 07:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by lilmissyin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont look for friends,some how i end up talking to them.like i started going to school a month ago and i was myself and being nice,like asking questions and being outgoing,being shy is your worst enemy .please dont be shy bcuz if people try to talk to u and you dont say much they might think ure stuck up.talk loud be funny and dont be serious all the time
2007-03-13 07:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self ,caring and sharing.I meet a lot of people in my job,so its easy for me to make friends ,because I meet so many people,
2007-03-13 08:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join clubs, put yourself out there, be friendly, talk to ppl.....
2007-03-13 07:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋