how to come back from being fired?

Question

I have worked at the same job for six years and i got fired for the first time in my life. It was the longest job i had ever had.
I really hated working there and it was really bad for my health. Makeing me sick all the time. I almost dont want to go back to work. Maybe start my own bisness or be a partner in one. Just hopeing for some advise.

Answer 1

Maybe it was a blessing in disguise, especially since you hated your job
You can take this opportunity to start your own business, if that's what you want to do. Or maybe you can look at a different career path then what you were doing.
Best of luck!

Answer 2

People get fired all the time. In better than 80% of the cases, it has nothing to do with them being incompetent. It's often one of two cases. Something went horribly wrong and although mistakes were made on boths side, management too, it's the employee that takes the fall. Or it was political. There was clash of work styles or personalities (someone just didn't like you.) In less than 20% did the employee actually do something wrong (illegal, violation of company policy or something very politically incorrect) Verl seldom is it because the employee was actually incompetent. You worked there 6 years so I find it hard to believe you were incompetent.

Yes, being fired or laid off from some companies is actually a blessing in disguise. You admitted that you hated the place and it made you sick. You probably should have left on your own long before this. So, whether it was getting fired or you resigned, it's all for the better you're out of there!

It's surprising but if you really think about it, there are probably employment options for you. Think about what skills you have learned and what other types of businesses are out there for them. Ask around (family, friends, neighbours, acquaintances) about what occupations they have or they are aware of that might be a fit for you. There are always options.

I've been fired and, no, it's not a good feeling. But keep in mind, lots of successful persons have been fired. The most famous is Lee Iaccocca. He had enormous success at Ford Motor Company and worked his way up from the bottom to the President. Then Henry Ford II fired him after 8 years as President. Why? Although Henry Ford never admitted it, it was obvious: he was jealous of Iaccocca. He got tired of hearing Iacoccoa get all the credit for the success. I mean, who do you think really makes things happen at the company? Is it the #2 guy who worked his way from the bottom to the top, or the #1 guy who is the grandson of the founder and has the company name? I think the answer is obvious.

Chin up and look around for opportunities.

-- Liam

Answer 3

You haven't fallen far from the horse yet. Jump right back on before you lose your self esteem. Don't wait too long, it looks bad on your resume. Find where your talents and interest lie. Get a job in that area. Learn as much as you can for the next year or so then start your biz in that field. Sounds like you may need a bit of time off, you should at least take some time to your self because to sort things out. Once you start that new job it might be a year before you are aloud to go on holidays. Your heart is heading in the right direction don't let lack of self esteem take over.

Answer 4

It really depends why you were fired. If your employer had a just reason for letting you go, then you will have to report that on an application. However, you are also allowed to state your side. If you try to keep your explanation short and sweet, employers tend to want to listen more.

Six years is a long time, so that is in your favor. If you have a good idea for your own business and you have the funding to get a new business going, go for it! That way you will never have to deal with these feelings again and you will only have to answer to yourself! Good luck to you! Annie

Answer 5

If you want to start your own business, contact your local Chamber of Commerce for resources. Also find out if there is a small business development center in your area. These services can help you start out right and avoid many of the common mistakes and misconceptions of people looking to start their own business.

Job hunting is hard, but it takes some work and perserverance and pays off in the end. You hated that job anyway. They just did you a favor.

Answer 6

well, you need to think about what your qualifications are, then try a job search, put out your resume and find something your interested in.

starting a business is an extremely full time task, you will lose everything, and be in the red for the first year and a half, and if business is not good, then you may never get out of debt, and the debt will be very high.

try putting your resume out on the web, monster.com or google "job search"

the only way to get known is thru advertisment, and you need to advertise yourself about now

Answer 7

Well congrats we do now know that the universe has answered your request! It took you out of a place that was not good for you ! Now the same energy you spent hating that job , spend on finding a new one, as for me I'm in the same boat. I have started by upgrading my resume and looking for resources (free) to help me with better interviewing techniques. But first i have to write out a goal list of the things that wanted. And also allot of positive self talk because sometimes your self esteem takes a dive. But just believe in self i know you'll have that great job you deserve!

Answer 8

The first time you get fired, is a terrible thing at the time. But you WILL get over it and it will probably be the best thing for you---but you don't know it yet. Good Luck you will be ok.

Answer 9

Start your own business, be your own boss...good luck! :)