my bestfriend name's anna is fighting with this girl name's ferlisha which happened to be a quite close friend of mine before. Now Ferlisha hang around with bad people and now she's completely change into a whole rude, selfish and redicilous person. then she's getting rude to anna and now she wanna fight. As i said she hang around with bad people so she's getting more people to gang up on anna. Anna just ignored ferlisha and walked away but ferlisha still wanna fight even when she got told off by the teacher already. What should my bestfriend do?
2007-03-13 06:46:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend should try to keep on ignoring this other girl. People that want to fight are just trying to look cool in front of their friends. If this other girl really tries to fight her, then she should let someone know about it. I know it's not the cool thing to do but your friend could really get hurt. Especially if they gang up on her. But if this girl does come up to your friend and swings at her then she should fight back. Never let anyone tear you down. Your friend might get in trouble though if you are at school but at least she will have stuck up for herself. But the best thing to do before going that route is to tell someone if it gets too bad.
2007-03-13 06:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lonely Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
VERY IMPORTANT!! If this girl Ferlisha is all talk, then Anna needs to keep ignoring her. Most girls who turn into a b**** after changing groups of friends just like to start mess like that to get attention. But if Ferlisha is really serious about trying to jump your friend, alert an authority figure! Don't be bold and try to fight them to save face, your personal well-being is at risk. Tell a teacher and/or the principal, and if they don't help you guys, tell your parent to call the cops. Be safe. You and your friend.
2007-03-13 06:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by kdd_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you...I'd ask the bully (face to face) what the hell she thinks she's going to get out of picking on your friend.
Tell her this is all "baby-crap"!
If the bully wants to strike first.....do defend..with street-fighting. (don't pull hair and scratch)
Somewhere in all this....let a grown-up authority figure in on what's happening. (in case of law suits)
When I was in high school, all it took was standing up to the bully. Sometimes knocking the crap outta them. (in front of their friends)
Those were the good ole days...everyone sues now. (wimps)
2007-03-13 07:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell your ex friend to leave her alone cause really deep down you know she not hard she is still the friend you knew before she got with them. you need to step up
2007-03-13 06:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, tell her to continue avoiding the fool. She will cool off one of these days.
2007-03-13 06:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by The Razor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should hang around you and other friends or tell the principal or police about the harrassment
2007-03-13 06:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by tryin2help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a different teacher or parent
2007-03-13 07:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you stick up for her?
2007-03-13 06:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow !!cat fight meow.....
2007-03-13 06:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by ASK-HOLE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up !!!!
2007-03-13 06:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋