Here's the situation: There is a man (who once dabbled in homosexuality) who is currently living with his ex-lover. Actually, his ex-lover is living with him due to financial errors and the like. He (the used-to-be-gay-guy) takes care of him (the ex-gay lover) financially, medically etc.(he's on his medical insurance). The guy who once dabbled in homosexuality claims he loves him (his ex-lover) like a brother. Now he is dating a straight female and insists that he isn't gay--he claims he just experimented a while back. The straight woman whom he is dating is a relative of mine. They have been "together" for nearly a year and to date, according to my relative, he has not slept with her nor made any sexual advances towards her. His reaction to her asking "WHY"? is that he states he's "Not Ready". My question to you all is this: is this joker gay or what? Please tell me your thoughts/personal experiences (if you"ve had any) and the like. I say he is. End of story
2007-03-13 06:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by charmed4evr 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yeah.....no matter what he is, I'd tell her to break it off, mostly because that's just a weird situation....
2007-03-13 08:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the situation is merely the same as mine. i'm a discreet gay. not a closet but discreet. i had once a lover whom i thought that he loves me well. we've been living for more than three years. for what a lovers made in bed is the same as ours. now, after i discovered that he courted a straight girl, i ended it up. i know he used me to survive. for your question, is he a gay too? well, i will say he is. it doesn't matter on what his sex preference would be. but the fact that he's enjoying the time once or he was doing it with the same sex, probably he will look it for another..
2007-03-13 08:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by humantorch 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have absolutely no idea whether he is or is not gay. However, I do have a couple of thoughts:
First...why is it unusual for a man to say he's "not ready?" If it was the female, no one would bat an eye. Maybe he isn't ready to take it to the next level because he isn't truly in love with her or isn't ready to make an emotional commitment to her. And yes, I'm ignoring his "past" because I don't see how it matters; he could be bisexual.
Second....how is this really any business of yours? Why do people feel it necessary to air not only their dirty laundry but everyone else's as well? So he's not banging her brains out...so what? There's a serious lack of morals and restraint in this world today....I'd give the guy a thumbs up.
2007-03-13 08:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm skeptical of issues like this, for starters because of the fact numerous the information that men and ladies (in spite of orientation) have distinctive brains is exaggerated or per questionable technology, plus there is the actuality that the *majority* or human brains are interior the androgynous overlap of whats viewed a masculine concepts and woman concepts. I additionally think of there is the concern of ways the information is offered and interpreted, regardless of the indisputable fact that interior the 2nd article i replaced into pleasantly suprised while it stated gay adult men/lesbian women human beings and at contemporary women human beings/at contemporary adult men have been comparable *to a minimum of one yet another* particularly than asserting that gays have been such as the alternative intercourse.
2016-10-02 01:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by corolis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to say that no one 'dabbles' in homosexuality just like no one 'dabbles' in heterosexuality.
2007-03-13 09:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋